help me understand, i fought over the years with her because something inside told me she wanted other people,well she kept insisting i was what she wanted not too mention that i helped her raise her son,now 7 years old, my ? is this: why wouldnt she let me go along time ago if i wasnt what she wanted,we fought and fought,put her son through hell and all for nothing, i came accross this site and learned she even wanted my 16 year old brother and dont love anybody but her son,mom,dad and that was it she said, honestly.?i was a good man, just wanted a faithfull girl to marry and have a kid and all that other b.s.what did i do to deserve this?
2006-10-07 15:15:46 · 5 answers · asked by jao89122 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She doesnt have confidence in herself. She needs some kind of attention from others that she is not getting from you. For instance I get so mad at my boyfriend because he totally ignores me when it is football season. Its this time of the year that we always get into arguments and sometimes I really get fed up. Because even if the game is crappy and like a 40pt difference he wont look away. She just may have gotten to fed up over time with something. I am not sure if she ***** someone else but if she did.. JUST MOVE ALONG there are other women out there who would love someone like you. IF she didnt do anything extreme and you still really have feelings for her just try to work it out ask her whats bothering her and what you could do to help. Sometimes my BF doesnt listen and if he did he would know exactly the problem. Sorry to hear about he son being involved. That really blows...but she will realize what she lost when you do leave.
2006-10-07 15:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by vidamar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all next time follow ur gut instincts.. when u want to cheat ur not gonna faithfully admit it to the person ur having a relationship w/r u? no ur not.. it doesn't matter that u were a good man (so u say), but what's done is done and now u should move on and take this as a lesson learned and don't dwell on it...
2006-10-07 22:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no body says that you deserved to be done like she has done you sounds to me the only reason she wanted you is to play the daddy role to her son you need to cut ties now and try to move on with your life
2006-10-07 22:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by southern angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too young to know what she wants waiste of time if cheating is involved too much drama and unfortunatly too hard to change for her or anyone eles
2006-10-07 22:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a whore .
2006-10-07 22:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by bloo b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋