2006-10-07 15:12:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It all depends on a lot of things, like how long have you two been together? Do YOU think it's a good idea? What do you have to lose? I mean the question that you asked is pretty open, you don't really give any details on what you leaving behind, if it's a job, you can always find others, if it's family, then they should support any decision that you decide to make, if it's friends, they too should support your decisions, I mean what you really need to ask yourself is ....... are you ready for that type of change and commitment? If the answer is yes, then move, if the answer is no, well then you obviously aren't ready for that type of change, if your undecided then tell your guy whats on your mind, tell him the pro's and con's on moving and see if the two of you can work that out.
Good luck on whatever you decide to do, I just hope that whatever it is that you decide, you're happy!!
2006-10-07 15:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if you guys get married. I will go any where my husband want me to go, but if it is a boyfriend there are no guarantees so you would have everything to lose and nothing to gain.
On the other hand you only live once and I would suggest to anyone not to live this thing called life with any regrets. So do what makes you happy. If you love him enough to go with him, and if it does not work out you have a "bounce back" plan I say go for it. Good luck.
2006-10-07 22:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg...so many things to consider. What exactly are you leaving behind?..Do you have a good job where you are now?..What will you loose if you go..what would you gain if you went?..How long have you been with your guy?..Why does he want to go there? If you did go, and left everything behind..then for some reason you find you made a horrible mistake, how hard would it be to regain all that you lost before?..Way to many things to think about for anyone to answer to you..yes or no you should go. You have to think what this involes..what will be lost..what will be gained..what are the risks..how serious are you both..what are his reasons for wanting to go there...
2006-10-07 22:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how you feel about Alaska. I've been there and it is a very beautiful state but the employment opportunities tend to be narrow. Much of the state is very rural; if you love camping this would be great, if not, well, think hard. What would he/you be doing there? Perhaps it would be best to visit first and see what you think.
2006-10-07 22:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by jeffrcal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a smart idea ..especially if you are just bf/gf..Moving seems great and exciting BUT what happens if you break up? You will be leaving behind your friends, family, and everything you're familiar with...No one knows your situation but you...Bottom line if there is more negatives then positives about this then you will be regretting it later..
2006-10-07 22:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by xcura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question I have is WHY does he want you to leave everything behind. A new start is fine. But is he trying to maroon you?
I am not making judgments. I don't know him and you do.
2006-10-07 22:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by woundbyte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is if you have a thing for mosquitos, 6 months of darkness, and the nations highest suicide rate
2006-10-07 22:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by alanc_59 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, if it doesn't work out you could hook up with an eskimo.
2006-10-07 22:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by That's my final answer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BAD...its very cold there
2006-10-07 22:18:37 · answer #9 · answered by ndn_202 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋