I am a junior and these sophomore guys have fun annoying me and my boyfriend and making fun of us. They say rude things about me and think I'm gross because I go out with a guy in their grade who they think is geeky. I could care less what they think, because he treats me right. I am so sick and tired of being called names by them and them scooting away from me just to make me feel like I'm not good enough. I have tried my best to tell them how I feel about their behavior, but they won't listen. My boyfriend has tried as well and nothing has happened. I am polite to everyone and there are a lot of people who are nice to me, but they are ruining our relationship together. They always spread nasty rumors about us and my boyfriend doesn't want to go to the homecoming anymore, because those rude guys in his class are planning to go to the dance high and are going to try to embarrass us in front of everyone. How should we go about on handling this treatment?
2006-10-07 15:09:59 · 8 answers · asked by +♪♫ rip my jeans.not my ♥ ♫♪+ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it might sound drastic, but try talking to your guidence counslor. Please don't let what other people say ruin your relationship, specially if he is a great guy and your happy with him..Most guys in school (like the ones you talk about) are dumb @$$holes and have nothing better to do than to torment people. I know its hard, but act like it doesn't bother you...just say what ever. Maybe if they relize that it doesn' bother you, it will take all the fun our of it.
I wish you luck...I remember how hard that stuff is to put up with when I was in school.
2006-10-07 15:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both you and your boyfriend should ignore them. As long as you keep responding to their insults, they know they are bugging you, then they are getting what they want - which is a reaction from the both of you. They are not worth the time & effort. Ignore them & they will eventualy go away. They are not worth the effort for you to try & resolve anything with them. As long as you keep reacting, they will keep bugging you guys.
2006-10-07 22:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by yellow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
High School Drama. WEeeeeeeeeee
2006-10-07 22:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by Justin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a camera and take a pic at a weird angle so it looks like they are kissing when the're talking and saying something that makes their lips pucker. then make lots of copys and show them one and tell them u have more. then make them get on their knees and say sorry in front of everyone
2006-10-07 22:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by crflexjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them. most guys are jerks, the geeky ones are usually the coolest, even if your man isnt geeky... you know what i mean
2006-10-07 22:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by vera lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them they will eventually go away or grow up. If you do not acknowledge them you give them no new ammunition
2006-10-07 22:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either tellthem like it is and don't back down.. or keep on doing what you've been doing.. ignoring them..
if you let those boys etc, let them know that it bothers you then they'll keep on doing it..
2006-10-07 22:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by chirpin' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat the crap out of them!
2006-10-07 22:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋