2006-10-07 14:58:29 · 24 answers · asked by Friendless Wonders 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
may be your a lozer
2006-10-07 15:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by bryan b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you exude negativity. Think positively about yourself and your life. Then you will attract people. You're nic is "Friendless Wonders." That's got to go. You're TELLING yourself that you're "friendless," and we believe the things we tell ourselves. Dump that nic now and get a positive one.
Surround yourself with positivity. Stop listening to dark depressing music. Stop reading sad and alienated poetry. Do something good for others, without them knowing about it. Get out in the sunshine. Be active, exercise. Eat right. Don't play with matches. Don't run with scissors. No running. Keep your fingers out of your mouth. Don't stick foreign objects in your ears. Sit up straight. Eat all your vegetables. Do your homework. Write to your mom. Always wear clean underwear, in case you get into an accident. Don't be a tattle-tale. Wash your hands after using the toilet. Brush and floss at least twice a day. Don't play-fight with sticks, you'll put an eye out. Don't eat pop-rocks and then drink soda, your stomach will explode. Don't eat Bubble-Yum, it has spider eggs in it. Don't smoke, it will stunt your growth. When it snows, be VERY quiet, or else it will stop snowing. Good luck.
2006-10-07 15:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i do not know how old that you are and I am not sure how to answer your question because it is kind of vague. Do you have problems around people? Do you have a hard time talking to other people without feeling awkward? If so you may be suffering from Social Anxiety Disorder and may need medication so that you may be yourself again. Without anymore to go on that is all that i can tell you. Good Luck and God Bless you
2006-10-07 15:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is a "friend"? Perhaps they are meant to come and go out of your life. You are the most important person in your life, and friends, even if there were a lot of them around you, shouldn't be more important than your self-hood.
Say "hi" to people you don't know, and smile. Give a possible friend an "opening" to greet you back. It will happen.
2006-10-07 15:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a relative who is very charming and sociable and has lots of friends?
Maybe your friends were chiseled onto that person and off of you by "stonecutter" relatives and/or acquaintances.
It is possible that a bounty exists on the heads of people who befriend others against "stonecutter" "orders". Do you know what it means to "be under orders"?
Please refer to my previous answer about Alcoholics Anonymous.
Find out how "The System" works.
2006-10-07 17:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by spanner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe three common reasons why people don't have any friends
1. they are really terrible people who hate everything and everyone (which i don't think is the case with you, since you wouldnt be asking such a question)
2. they are not social people and they just don't feel comfortable around other people. (this can be worked on but it takes some time and effort on your part)
3. they don't have anything to offer to anyone and are not fun to be around (again, this is something that you can work on by working on yourself, your life, your attituded etc.)
2006-10-07 15:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by tom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are not enough specifics in your question. I mean, if you call yourself a friendless wonder, your brain will acknowledge this and your behavior follows. Expect people to like you and they can't help but want to get to know you better. You can do it.
2006-10-07 16:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by tankgirl190 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're spending your time asking strangers on Yahoo! Answers.
Seriously, go outside and knock up a conversation with someone.
2006-10-07 15:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join the "Friends of the Friendless Club" that Lucy joined on "I Love Lucy!"
Ooh a new friend for you! (See above post)
2006-10-07 15:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you do not really want friends
friends use and abuse you, they reject you,they go behind your back. maybe you feel intimidate by them. maybe you are just very independent.
most people need friends to lean on.
maybe you like to go out for dinner and don't mind or enjoy eating alone. I have many many acquaintances but very few true friends.
friends are people you can count on. maybe you do not need that.
just some thoughts.I hope it helps you
2006-10-07 15:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you probably dont lie,dont judge,and really dont care if someone likes you or not.people find it hard to connect with strong people.they feel intimidated.or maybe your a hermit and dont want friends.
2006-10-07 15:03:13 · answer #11 · answered by yubuggin? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋