k so i really liked this girl and i was afraid to tell here to her face so I sent her a letter, cause as a guy i didn't think anything of that (Strike 1?). So now that i see her reagularlly i say hi but normally I just get this glare like wtever loser and after i get this glare i get this horrible felling in my stomach (Strike2?). I just need to know hat I sould to to talk to her without be nervous and get to know her better and maybe get an attraction from her, I slso need to know what a women looks for in a guy and how to figure out what to to to attract her. I also need to know if there are unwritten rules that say I already struck out, or what I can do to totally turn her away if this isn't what alread happend, thanks for you help!
2006-10-07 14:57:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
k so i really liked this girl and i was afraid to tell here to her face so I sent her a letter, cause as a guy i didn't think anything of that (Strike 1?). So now that i see her reagularlly i say hi but normally I just get this glare like wtever loser and after i get this glare i get this horrible felling in my stomach (Strike2?). I just need to know hat I sould to to talk to her without be nervous and get to know her better and maybe get an attraction from her, I slso need to know what a women looks for in a guy and how to figure out what to to to attract her. I also need to know if there are unwritten rules that say I already struck out, or what I can do to totally turn her away if this isn't what alread happend, thanks for you help! I forgot to metion that we talked all the time before this letter and we were great friends, in the letter I just said that I liked her an dI was a little forward with it.
2006-10-08 10:42:14 · update #1
You don't say what you put in the letter, but it must have been offensive to her. Perhaps you were a bit too intimate in what you wrote.
She doesn't want anything to do with you, now. Give up, find someone else, and start, this time, by talking. Say Hi, and introduce yourself.
2006-10-07 15:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not into you. You made your feelings known to her and she has not returned them. You cannot make someone like, either they do or they don't. It's time to just give up on this one.
2006-10-07 22:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋