ok so.. i just dont get ask out by people MY AGE.. im 15 and i like alot of guys but they dont seem to notice me. it makes me feel so ugly.. theres this time a hot guy asked me out in a party he's 17 and i was 14 he asked if we cud hangout and i said yes but i just cudnt believe a guy like him asked me out he has a car and motorcycle and really cool. i told him im 14 but was totally cool about it. it didnt work out cuz all the time im wit him im thinking it was some kind of a joke since i barely get ask out.. there was also this time a security guard[middle aged] gave me and my friends free sodas and asked for my number! [i gave him fake] i was so freaked out. am i sending bad vibes to people my age? its just weird whenevr i go to target or sumting i see like older guys[like 18-20yrs] looking at me. and no i dont look old. what is wrong with me?
2006-10-07 14:52:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like you have low self esteem. If guys are looking at you all the time when you go somewhere... and I'm assuming you aren't drawing attention by dressing like a chicken... the hun, you are good looking and you should take a look in the mirror and realize that. But not only on the outside, but on the inside... confidence comes from within... do more things that make you feel good about yourself like sports, art, or volunteering. That always boosts my self esteem.
2006-10-07 14:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by Melanie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you....sounds like you're just in a neighborhood full of creepy guys who can't attract anyone THIER age, so they come at you.
If this is what THEY are doing, it's not your fault. But don't get discouraged and settle for something you shouldn't if you start getting frustrated.
2006-10-07 15:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this isnt really the same thing but sorta...i liike alotta guys at school but it seems like none of them ever notice me but whenever i go somewhere i always get hit on (but not by older guys) but i dont no why i dont get hit on at school. i wish i new what was wrong to...
2006-10-07 15:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax babe, everyone is diffrent.
2006-10-07 15:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋