how does a guy hug a girl to make her feel special? is there some way to make her feel loved? and, how do u hug in general? as in... do i put my hands above her arms or below them? do i hold her by the waist or by the sholders, should i hold her butt or waist or her back?... she is only 3cm shorter then me just so you know...?????
2006-10-07 14:24:10 · 16 answers · asked by no 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
soft and tender!!!
2006-10-07 14:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, that is very sweet of you to ask. It's really nice that you want to make this girl feel special. As for hugging, there has to be the right timing to it or you might make her feel like "okay...where did that come from?", especially because this seems to be a new thing from you and she won't be expecting it. If she comes to you talking about a bad day or how she's feeling stressed, that is the right time to give her a hug to make her feel loved. Just putting your arm around her and holding her is also a thing that makes girls feel special and protected...but don't overdo it! When you go to hug a girl, usually the guy puts his arms below the girl's. Unless you guys are very serious, holding her by the butt is a bad idea! Holding her around her waist is the best way in my opinion. Best of luck!
2006-10-07 21:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by jennabeanski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hands are below hers and hud her like you would hug the most fragile thing in your life. Once you hug pull her closer and rubb her back while breathing in softly like you are trying to catch the scent of her perfume. It lets her know you appreciate the moment.
Hell now I want a hug!!
2006-10-07 21:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you actualy love her then a kiss should make her feel loved a deep pasionate kiss and you hug her right above the waist while doing this to show that you are not only doing that for sex
good luck and god bless
2006-10-07 21:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by trouille123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, my friend (guy friend who really likes me but i consider him just a friend) always hugs me below the arms and around the waist. he holds me for like a few seconds and then gently slides his hands around my waist. it always makes me feel happy, even if hes just a friend :)
2006-10-07 21:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by vera lynn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if unexpected
do it from the back (but you have to know she knows its you)
then hug her around the waste... girls love it, trust me
put ur arms near her waist below her arms
put ur head on her shoulder
stuff like that
tell me if u need more
2006-10-07 21:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hug below the arms, hold by waist, and hold waist.
2006-10-07 21:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by D-Dog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. If you are as fat as I am it's hard. The last time I tried to hug a girl I was lucky to reach her ears.
Never mind, I just answered your and my own question. I am calling her back.
2006-10-07 21:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by sweetirsh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can normally tell when the time is right. When my boyfriend hugs me and it makes me feel really special he grabs my lower back and hugs really tightly. It always makes me really happy. Good luck, hope she is a special one.!!
2006-10-07 21:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, you may be to young to hug. Try practicing on a pillow or hug your mom. (but watch your hands)
2006-10-07 21:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by Spann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hug her how you would hug your mom or family member then you will special because you made her feel special
2006-10-07 21:27:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋