2006-10-07 14:23:42 · 6 answers · asked by Unanswered 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
basically... im like 14 and this guy is.. 21.. and he is my guitar teacher
2006-10-07 14:26:03 · update #1
Learn that he is a teacher, not a lover.
2006-10-08 12:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come to the realization that nothing is going to happen because he is your teacher first of all and second of all the age difference is completely illegal. Chances are that a 21 year old guy just sees you as a kid anyway. When I was 15, I was totally in love with my 30 year old history teacher. I am 23 now and I think how silly that was. Drool all you want but keep it to yourself. And if he does ever check you out, what a creep! He knows that his students are too young and it would unprofessional to date them even if you were say 18.
2006-10-07 14:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by star28mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Personally i do not see a problem with this if he likes u back and ur parents are okay with this. The reason for my answer is my ex-husband was 21 and i was 13 when we first started dating, we were maried only for 7 years ,, but the total relationship was 16 years long,, and no i did NOT get pregnant young,, I had my first child @ 27,,, so i see nothing wrong with it as long as the feelings are mutual and u are mature.
2006-10-07 14:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by kimmie_o2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend asked me for advice on YIM
heres what i said...
thats one of those situations where i cant tell her to act on her wishes (as much as id love to be able to tell her to) legal restraints restrict her from asking him and him saying yes, i guess i dont know, maybe tell her to get a differant guitar teacher or repress the feelings, its hard to believe shes really in love as much as it just being a crush, but since i dont know id just tell her not to act on her feelings (as heartbreaking as that may be) wait until shes 15 16 or maybe 18 before she even lets on, because even tough i want her to be happy, i know what any responisble 21 year old would do
tell her if she really wants him the best thing to do at her age is to hold off for a couple years or so
cuz really i dont believe age effects love, i just know how society and the people involved would react
id just rather you dont get someone busted for being a pedophile ;)
2006-10-08 12:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ethernaut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. You could get this guy in deep ****. Focus on guys your age.
2006-10-07 14:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by Bryan S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how old u r
2006-10-07 14:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by dvl_n_dskyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋