is it true that after a woman's first time having sex, she can't help but want more, and thereby increases the likelihood that she'll cheat on you with another guy?
or...if she's never done it before, she'll do it with a guy just to get back at you, because u and her have never done it before? isn't that unfair. why are women so cruel that way?
2006-10-07 14:18:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, I recently lost my virginity this year-just because I had sex before does not mean that I NEED it all the time. I will not just sleep with aonyone just to feel satisfied or fulfied, it doesn't work that way for me. I need emotional attachment, stability, love, etc. I don't agree with that sex theory. Women who say they now need sex constantly because they've had sex before are women making up excuses for their promiscuous ways. Don't buy that crap.
Now that last question depends on the woman. If she was a virgin and has sex with a guy just to get back at you a way of revenge then she simply does not have any self esteem nor respect for herself. how can any girl lose her virginty to anyone just to get back at someone? that's just ridiculous, quite sad really. Not all woman are like that. And if a woman does that it;s not being cruel to the person, but cruel to HERSELF. She'll regret it eventually.
2006-10-07 14:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by NO♥NAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so not true. Well, whoever told you that is the one who's cruel. Maybe the person who told you that have experienced that before. But we women are not that way!
"is it true that after a woman's first time having sex, she can't help but want more," -- NOT TRUE. Except for nymphomaniacs.
"thereby increases the likelihood that she'll cheat on you with another guy?" -- NOT TRUE.
"if she's never done it before, she'll do it with a guy just to get back at you, because u and her have never done it before?" -- NOT TRUE.
2006-10-07 21:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who in the world told you that. No, usually when women have sex with you, and it is the first time for her she will cling to you.
If she has never done then that means that she is waiting for the right guy. And if your question refer to she has never done it with you, is because she might want it but is afraid that if she ask you, you will think less of her.
I don't know who you have been talking to, but I can imagine it was a male, that has no idea of what he is speaking off.
Usually the girl is who gets hurt when she has sex with a man or boy, because some of them like to exaggerate what they did. Sometimes, just to look like a MACHO they say the did when they didn't. You sound like a very sensitive young man, don't think that all women are bad, there are some, but most aren't.
The advise I will give you, is have sex when the time is right and you know you will stay with that girl for a while. Just don't have sex with a slut, that is when you can get hurt.
Good luck young man. Don't listen to idiots, if you must ask someone about sex, ask your parents (yes, your parents) or an older person that knows what they are talking about. Peace.
2006-10-07 21:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be that she will want more sex, but if she really likes you, she'll want more sex with you. AND no, just because she's never done it before, it does not mean she will cheat or that she will sleep with a guy to get back at you. Why do you feel that way about women?
2006-10-07 21:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by shar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh My GOD what are you even talking about? If the woman is a cheater...she will cheat! having sex has nothing to do with it. After my first time, I NEVER wanted it again. EVER. It took time to enjoy it, and it get's better the more in Love I am. I would NEVER EVER cheat on my man, EVER If I'm not getting enough Sex I'll masturbate.....Sounds like this chick you're dealing with is messed up in the head! Find yourself a good girl!
2006-10-07 21:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by conniechung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenagers tend to be ruled by their hormones, and as a result will want sex no matter what the reason. It depends on the individual and how they have been brought up, that determines how they will behave in a certain situation. Any girl who uses sex as a weapon against guys is being selfish and stupid, and doesn't deserve an honest guy's attention.
2006-10-07 21:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was good and she is satified then there shouldn't be nothing to worry about. On the other hand if it was a BIG disappointment then most likely the need must be fulfilled by someone else.......Woman is not cruel they have needs and wants and Men have to know the right time.
2006-10-07 21:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by Karramel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually the first time is very special , but it doesn't make her a hoe. especially if that 1st guy is still around , he is always special in her heart. a lady never forgets her 1st! but it sounds as thouh you have a hole other vision of this all. so all women aren't cruel that way.
2006-10-07 21:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by kierstead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the girl some girls fall head over heals for guys and others are the player type. Some are sincere and some are down right mean. If you are with the right person they won't do things to hurt you
2006-10-07 21:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by soccrchky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never cheat on my bf..i believe that if u truly love someone it is impossible to cheat..if u get cheated on, the girl or guy never loved u in the first place
2006-10-07 21:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Lil Lost Kitten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋