Theirs this boy at school who i use to like and he keeps asking me to do nasty stuff with him (sex) and he has a girlfriend but i told him no and he keeps calling me a hoe and stuff saying all of this hurtful stuff and boys keep messing with me and keep asking me to do stuff with them and they dont take me serious they disrespect me. why do they do this to me when i only done it with 2 people? I dont even look like a slut i mean i might tease with them but thats it. please help me
2006-10-07 14:14:10 · 10 answers · asked by latina_lachula 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lesson #1 in Life about People
PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS PUSH AS FAR AS U LET THEM....U are letting them push U.....its a weird primal pecking order thing kinda like animals.....kick one of the dudes in the nuts next time he says something like that and U will see how much they mess with U after that
2006-10-07 14:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by macrominded 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stop teasing. Boy's your age do and say hurtfull things because they really dont know how to express their feelings and they want to look good in front of thier friends. As far as having sex you shouldnt be and if you are you should be vary carefull of who knows because thats how rumors start and thats when the guys start to think your a "h*@" or sl*t" or any other bad names they call you. You deserve more respect then that but respect is earned and not given. You have to respect yourself first if you want others to.
2006-10-07 21:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by chrissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it....(i might tease with them but thats it) you know damn well you can't play with guys because they drag things out of porportion... thats a big no!!! and another thing ask yourself what it could be that you are doing wrong...could it be the way that you carry yourself....could it be the way you dress even though ppl should not judge us based on our attire... could it be certain things that you say to them...because it's something that is making them think that you are loose...could it be the two guys you slept with on two seperate occasions... they might have put a label out on you...you know these are all question that you need to ask yourself...the sad truth is you cannot stop someone from running their mouth about you, if they are going to talk about you.... then they are going to talk about you regardless.... i think you need to tell them once and for all to stay the hell out of your face..befor you report it to the authorities because it sounds like sexual harassment to me....keep your distance and if it continues to happen......then you know what to do....hope this helps
2006-10-07 21:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to love and respect yourself. When you do so, others will respect you. Don't give your body away to just anyone, it's all you have. Make it a temple you respect and take care of like it is IMPORTANT, which it is.
DStarr
2006-10-07 21:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stop tease with them and make them take you serious you have to make and example out of one of these boys you have got to ***** slap one of them and make it be known that you are not a joke are a toy to be played with
2006-10-07 21:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by janaine l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not how you look, it's how you act. You need to stop teasing with them, apperently they are getting the wrong idea.
2006-10-07 21:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look the guys that are saying that crap to you are just straight up *** holes just ignore them and just go on with life living the way you want and ignore negative people like that
good luck and god bless
2006-10-07 21:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by trouille123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really bothering you talk to your school and tell the principal and file sexual harrasment charges on him.
2006-10-07 21:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and don't tease anyone.
2006-10-07 21:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want's to sleep with you because you already did it
with other guy
c'mon how old are you?........2.........
when you decide to respect yourself and stop flirting with
them,then the'll stop...
stop looking for trouble......
isabelle
2006-10-07 21:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋