me and my girl have a 18month old baby she says she loves me misses me but just doesnt want to risk it. she doesnt want to get hurt again she doesnt believe me all she says is that she needs time but i cant wait its been 6weeks and i'm crazy for not having her. i tell her i'm going to be her daddy again and be there for her, give her the attention she needs what do i do i love her and its killing me that she doesnt want to try, not yet. i really am here for her, i want her back already im tired of being alone, without my babies!
2006-10-07 14:01:54 · 13 answers · asked by puteis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what i did was stopped paying attention to her, cared more about getting our first apartment and stopped buying her stuff, i did propose to her but i wanted to get married next year for the reason that i wanted a big wedding she wanted to get married a month ago but i said no to her i had proposed to her in feb. of this year, i honestly want her back and dont mean that sexually, i miss her presence period.
2006-10-07 14:18:28 · update #1
Here's an idea - how about proposing marriage? That would let her know you're serious about the relationship and would be good for the child.
2006-10-07 14:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever propose to marry her? Could it be that's the reason you're having a hard time getting what you want. A woman needs to have an assurance and a committment to have a long lasting relationship. Just see to it that you know how to keep a promise.
2006-10-07 21:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her you may have to wait. From the way you worded the question I get the impression that you may have cheated on her? (I apologise if I'm jumping to the wrong conclusion). If that is the case then she's bound to have reservations about trusting you. You'll have to just take things slow and earn her trust - remember she's gonna be worried about your child getting mixed messages too - (mummy n daddy are together one minute n not the next) she wants to be sure about you.
Hope it works out
Wishes n Dreams Xxx
2006-10-07 21:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give her time you cant rush these things. If you truly want her back then just be there for her and don't push it. The more you push it, the more she may want to wait. You say you want to be her "daddy" that may be the problem because she already has one of those.What she needs is for you to be a father to the child and a man to her. That's something you should think about.
2006-10-07 21:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by chrissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she needs to make a proper home with a husband and wife parenting the kids. It's not just about her feelings, it's about stepping up to the plate and providing a stable, loving, calm 2-parent home.
Get married, too!
2006-10-07 21:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take baby steps to work trust into your estranged relationship. Work on yourself, getting a house, home in order for her to come to. Be the man, show her that you are. Make frequent visits and communicate with honesty and kindness to her and your child. Peace.
2006-10-07 21:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her as you romised you will be from now, but give her space, let her learn to trust you again. Don't rush or you might loose her forever. What did you do anyway???
2006-10-07 21:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by Chula167 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how her that you love her. play with the child, make it seem like you are the perfect father and husband. Hope this helps!!!
your friend TURBO!!!
2006-10-07 21:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by turbo30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't convince her. She doesn't trust her, you did something to hurt her that made her mistrust you. That's life.
2006-10-07 21:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you want sex. There is a difference....and she knows it!
2006-10-07 21:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋