have to sleep with to be considered a slut? I haven't slept with any more then my guy friends so why should i be looked down on?
2006-10-07 13:50:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because girls are more emotional and are more likely to get emotionally attatched, so she is viewed as needing sex rather than wanting it for fun, hence a slut. If guys have this attitude about you, just carry yourself like it doesn't bother you; they are man sluts!!!!!
2006-10-07 13:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by afafae25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it is double standards for men and women. A guy always wants to get it from you, but when it is time to get serious, they don't want someone that has been around the block. You should not worry about what others think, the thing is you should respect yourself enough to not want to sleep around. When you meet Mr Right, you will want to be able to give him something you have never given to anyone else before. Something special, that something special is the love (physical love) between a man and a woman. It is something beautiful and you will know when you do fall in love that you were glad to have saved yourself just for the special someone. Respecting yourself is so much more important than just giving it up.
2006-10-07 20:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by RITA G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it is no ones business how many guys you have had sex with....unless you are under age, and your parents want to know in order to protect (that is a completely acceptable thing).
Second, don't ask, don't tell. Take the Army's slogan to heart. Don't tell guys how many you have slept with and you won't be looked down upon.
Third, don't sleep around so much that everyone knows because you do sleep around. Simple....keep your knickers on girl!
2006-10-07 20:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by guy friends do you mean guys that you had relationships with or guys that are just your friends? either way it doesn't make a difference, but however the outcome may be the truth of the matter is that you have a mediocre sense of self-control. you dont have to sleep w/ every guy you date or know. It's not a complete turn off, I can get over how many guys you slept with.
2006-10-07 21:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not how many guys, but how easy it is for a guy to sleep with you that determines if your a slut. If we just meet, talk for a few minutes and you go to bed with me, then you're probably a slut.
2006-10-07 20:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by Eric H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter how many guys a girl has slept with all it takes is that one time to have sex with the wrong guy and he'll go back and tell all his buddies how easy you were and lie about how fast it took him to get in your pants
2006-10-07 20:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Ambegurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dudue, how old are you? If you were any older than 18 it wouldnt matter what these other h.oes say bc you would be comfy with you and your sexuality. Sleep with whoever you want, just dont over advertise.
2006-10-07 21:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by Lily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two. You should only sleep with the guy you marry. After you're married.
2006-10-07 20:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you should only be sleeping with a man you love and want to spend the rest of your life with,,, with all the diseases today one is way tooo many,,,
2006-10-07 20:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by thanks to our brave troops, 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Blame society, that's just how people see things.
2006-10-07 20:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by Often times. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋