My boyfriend 23 years old! When I first met him we used to go out all the time. Latey it seems like all he wants to do is play video games with his boys and he expects me to sit there and watch!!! I expected this when I was in high school but what is his problem? I am so frustrated. I really love him though and I don't want to be a nagging girlfriend...
2006-10-07 13:48:38 · 18 answers · asked by Charlee's Mama 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The problem is not the Video games at all==== the problem is that he has become comfortable with the new life, His new life has him being the boys buddies and you are in the background as his supporter. Put your foot down and let him know that it cannot be that way. If you have to set a limit on how long they can play and then do family activities
2006-10-07 13:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by anton_29207 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sign up for an aerobics class or start working out at the gym - once he noticed that new bod you are sporting, the games won't be as interesting. Find something for you to do and enjoy. You were brought in this world by yourself, not with a man.
2006-10-07 13:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boy just needs to grow up. Dump him and don't turn back, all you are is a piece of furniture to him. There is no respect or consideration for you. He can play at his own home, if he wants time with you, it should be just that. That goes double for when your on the phone with him. Good luck
2006-10-07 13:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Love is the principle thing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously doesn't feel the same way about you that you do about him. You have two choices, either you stay and play "second fiddle" to video games and his friends or you move on and look for someone who will take your needs into consideration. This guy obviously doesn't.
2006-10-07 13:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way. Would you rather it be video games or another female. Maybe try to play with him on the games?
2006-10-07 13:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by jewell2578 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That use to happen to me!!! I ended up joining him and play to see how it was. Guess what? It's not as bad as I thought it was. So now we play games together and also spend quality time with each other.
Oh...When I first asked him if I can play too....he looked at me like girls can't play games. So I played to prove to him that I can beat him. I DID!!!^_^
2006-10-07 13:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by strawberry_kiss_gurlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm..sit there and play too. if you cant handle the hand eye cordination needed to play these games, i suggest you find yourself a new boyfriend and pass this one in my direction. Im always down for gaming
2006-10-07 13:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by Lily 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him about it. Tell him that u need sum time with him alone, not with his boys, or video games. You have to let him kno that ur getting unhappy with his behaviors. If u truly luv him, and he truly luvs u back, then he'll understand if u tell him. U wont be naggin him.
i hope that helped a bit
good luck!
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2006-10-07 13:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by rawr~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new boyfriend....don't live by the expectations of others..."its your thang" do what you want to do....and besides what is there to love about a video playing 23 yr old kid?
2006-10-07 13:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by sisrose 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Learn to play the games and whoop his ***! Don't get left out, make this something you can do with him.
2006-10-07 13:54:07 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋