I have asked her why she vomits when she sees a penis, she does not know and she is not a lesbian, this was secret her family does not even know. I do think it mental but is to the point that she gets phsicaly sick this what she tells me i have not shown her my penis so it is not me i do think counselling will work her past boy friend gave her oral sex but she never saw him without his clothes on becuase of her condition
2006-10-07 13:42:30 · 11 answers · asked by rappwash 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I am curious how old you two are? Because, when i was younger I was scared to death of sexual things. My mother always made sex out to be a bad thing. It was so bad that before I started my period she handed me a box of Kotex and told me to use them when I started. She NEVER discussed sex with me. So, when I finally came of age I was completely petrified of anything dealing with sex or sex organs. Maybe this is her problem. It is a great idea to send her to counseling and it is always good for a boyfriend to be understanding and be supportive.
2006-10-07 13:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything shocking like taking off your clothes if she has said she vomits when she sees a penis. That can be traumatic and she won't trust you.
She needs to go to a therapist and talk through some of her thoughts and issues. Maybe she was sexually abused and doesn't have clear memories about it, but is triggered by a penis.
It sounds like she's having somatic issues regarding genetals.
Be supportive and let her know that you care. Find someone locally that does counseling or who can refer her to a specialist and go with her for support.
2006-10-07 14:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by sugarapple25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately counseling. The only other suggestion would be to display yourself naked in front of her and lock the door. She cannot leave until she at least looks at you. However therapy would be the better solution of the two.
2006-10-07 13:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is some kind of emotional/mental problem. She would benefit from counseling/therapy.
2006-10-07 13:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably a made up story to "not have to (give) oral sex" yet at the same time....
2006-10-07 14:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by kay w 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People have to hit rock bottom before they will accept help. Sometimes its important to help them. My suggestion is to make her as sick as possible than suggest she get over it.
2006-10-07 13:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she is being untruthful to you. The only way to find out is to whip it out and show her. If she doesn't automatically throw up, you know she is a liar. If she does, tell her it was therapy.
2006-10-07 13:45:20 · answer #7 · answered by sos_sweet 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They aren't the best looking "members" of our society, especially when they are flaccid and/or uncircumcised.
2006-10-07 13:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by therego2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a B. s.
2006-10-07 14:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This whole thing sounds like B.S.
Surprise her and show her "Mr. Happy" see what happens.
2006-10-07 13:45:06 · answer #10 · answered by jessep 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋