what would you do?

Question

I dated my brothers best friend for a few years,we lived together,I caught him cheating,it has been a rough year,i left him.he still is trying to get me back.I ran into one of their friends bout 7months ago and we really hit it off,i was still bitter about the cheating,he listend and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,I asked him to sleep in the bed with me,I asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept and was a complete gentleman.The next morning things were awkward when he left,a mutual friend told me he liked me but is freaked abouth my ex.I saw him once since then and he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was there so we had to keep quiet.I have though about him since.There is this yearly party coming up and they both will be there,I dont mind being around my ex,im over him.I want to go in hopes of talking to this other guy again,but he rsvp'd for himself plus a guest,im assuming he has a date he is bringing,what would you do?Still go

Answer 1

if you truely do love him then go to the dance and if he does have a date get him away from her and tell him how you feel. if he still does love you then he will understand. just tell him how you feel about him
good luck and god bless

Answer 2

I probably wouldn't subject myself to any more drama from these 2 dudes. I wouldn't go to this party- if he friend is with a date, you'll feel bad, especially if she's prettier and he seems more into her. He doesn't really seem all that interested in you, does he?

Personally I don't think "complete gentlemen" climb into bed and sleep with an ex-girlfriend of a friend he only met a few hours ago. Just because he didn't try to do you doesn't make him a "gentleman". What are you doing inviting men into your bed like that????

Answer 3

you should go you dont know for sure if it is a date he is bringing or just a friend. But if it turns out that it is a date its still a party there will be plenty of other people there for you to have fun with and hopefully get your mind off him.

Answer 4

sure I'd go! but I'd wait to rsvp to see if he was planning on asking me to go with him or not. Maybe he's thinking of asking you, ya never know! If not, go anyways! If he's got a date and you're not having any fun, you can always go home.