No it's not weird, but you seem unusually intelligent and mature for recognising it in yourself at such a young age.
You sound like you want a "fixer-upper", and you are probably very caring and a bit maternal.
Also, it sounds like these bad boys are out of your usual social class, and you dont get to meet many, so no wonder they are exciting to you.
Anyway I fully agree and sympathise ... hopefully you can find someone who has the bad boy image and the "issues", but is also a decent, kind, smart and loving guy.
2006-10-07 14:25:36
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answered by Girl Machine 7
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This is perfectly normal. Why do you think the media hype the bad boy style the most? It sells to the most women. Why do ladies agree to go to all those action movies with the guys? Do we really like the car chases? Even in very obviously romantic movies, the lead is very rarely pure sugar. Even us old gals who have had years of training in counseling have a weak spot for that bad boy. I think it's in the genetics, women are attracted to it, therefore breed with them most, and the cycle continues.
I would think about why you have the tendency to choose the ones that need fixing. Not all bad boys do, but you'll be stuck repeating bad relationships if you insist upon choosing the ones that need fixing. It is one of the lessons of being a woman, they are not all diamonds in the rough and very few want a relationship. Especially those who have found out that girls will give in to them easily. Being smart doesn't mean you have to give up that rugged bad boy, it only means you'll need to curb cravings until you find exactly what you're looking for.
My advice to all women is to get your career going before you start seriously looking. I know this is the hardest thing for most ladies to do. Trust me, no guy is there to 'give' you love if it's not already there in your heart. If you haven't found Mr. right already, the best thing to do is focus on your career and let Mr. right come to you. When you are ready, he will. He always does for those who want him.
2006-10-07 14:05:44
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answered by Militia-Angel 3
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Being attracted to bad boys is far from rare! Get involved with the bad boys now - it's better to find out what the reality of dating a bad boy is like sooner rather than later...
2006-10-07 13:35:16
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answered by Colleen 1
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You've got some glitch in your brain that makes them attractive to you. If you don't figure it out, you will end up finding out exactly why they're called bad boys. See a counselor.
2006-10-07 13:32:58
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answered by steelypen 5
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Just don't marry one. It'll be a big mistake. Don't look at good guys, either. They're the really creepy ones. They usually have fetishes.
Bad boys rock! Just date them a couple times. They don't care about you.
2006-10-07 13:38:43
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answered by myhandsarecuffed 2
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NOOOOoooooo its not weird. First off girls are ATTRACTED to bad boys, (like me :) 2ndly if we find out in the long run they are a really good boy at heart--THAT IS OUR DREAM GUY! Like 99% of girls i know TOTALLY agree with me. Trust me. Just roll with what you are doing--like just keep living life---and if you are single you wont be for long. :)
2006-10-07 13:43:22
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answered by Anonymous
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My bad boy fetish just keeps getting worse and worse. Where it's all going to end up, I have no idea.
2006-10-07 13:34:51
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answered by Scarlett_156 3
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not at all honey you're still young. Most good girls are attractive to thug guys anyway. You can try to go on dates with good guys to see if that's what you want.
2006-10-07 13:35:06
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answered by msprince040 1
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No way dating bad boys can be fun, as long as your careful I say have fun and enjoy life.
2006-10-07 13:34:12
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answered by Nisha 2
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you will never be over it. its going to be a fetish in the back of your mind forever. i can see you becoming part of a BDSM club
2006-10-07 13:35:44
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answered by J 2
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