Why do women reveal so much skin to attract men and feel uncomfortable when Guys check them out?

Question

You ladies should be flattered that your clothing is so appealing as you planned and now I'm looking. Wasn't that the idea when you bought the stuff? The hotter it is, the harder it is to look you in the eyes and I get uncomfortable looking at what you want me to look at

Answer 1

why? because they can

Answer 2

Sometimes women wear revealing clothing NOT necessarily to attract a man's attention but to compete with other women. (Sad but true.)

It's surely a paradox-- women get offended if men don't find them attractive, but they are also offended if men slobber all over them. I have wondered about that myself. I guess there's a fine, nearly invisible line that men must tread in order to express attraction in an acceptable (and with any luck successful) way.

I usually don't get offended if men stare at whatever I'm showing unless they make rude or cruel remarks. Maybe that's the key-- women WANT for you to look at them, but they get uncomfortable with the idea that maybe they've attracted the attention of a pervert. So you need to find a way to project the image of a non-perverted, normally sexual straight male. How to do that, I'm not sure since I'm not a guy. Nevertheless, I hope this was of some help to you.

Answer 3

LOL that's funny. I remember back in the day when I was in high school, during my junior year all of a sudden I started to dress too sexy, revealing my big breasts, body, everything. I thought that was what men liked and did that to please them. I remember walking to my car one day and I got honked sooo much I felt very disgusted and was pissed off. Later I realized that it was not their fault, I was getting the reaction that I deserved. I was dressing promiscuous so why not be treated as such. After that day I never dressed sexy like that ever again. I learned my lesson! Now i' m not saying that I am dressed as a nun lol, I still wear sexy clothes but there is a difference between sexy and s l u t t y. Sexy is from within, confidence and the way one carries herself. So yea, I can understand what you are saying there. A lot of women say one thing and do the opposite. Just as the saying says 'you are what you eat' but in this case it's 'you are how you dress.' Good point!

Answer 4

Sometimes it feels nice to be checked out and have your appearance acknowledged with an appreciative look. But, if he looks at you like he is some kind of cartoon character with his eyes ready to bug out of his face or he is busy staring only at your below-the-neck features, it comes across as overly sexualized, i.e. you are an object for someones use, not the breathtaking beauty that he can't stop looking at. Just look away or around once in a while. You don't have to lock your eyes on mine like a tractor beam, just don't lock them onto the booty for too long. Oh, and the farther you are away from me, the longer you can gaze before I feel uncomfortable.

Answer 5

It's their way of getting over on you.... when you can't look them in the eyes... they know you'd probably rip your underwear digging the money out of your pocket to see a little more. When the younger girls and women discover this new-found weapon to be noticed by men, they naturally want to see just how far they can push it. And....some women need that constant reassurance that they are still attractive. By you staring, they get that reassurance without the embarrassment of asking the question.

Answer 6

I love to look at women and if they ever see me looking, NOT LEERING, I smile and say that I admire their taste and I do compliment them on the way they look. I am sometimes ignored and some like to answer with thank you while others answer with words I can' t write here. If a guy is sure and is not leering the lady will feel this and will not feel like the local rapist is about to pounce. Then the answer will be"thank you". But again there are some women out there who dress like they just left a bordello and I usually look and smile to myself and say ZERO at all but smile and keep walking. Please guys, don't leer, and please women, don't dress like you are working the street either. Use etiquette, and as Robbie Burns said in a poem, "Oh would God the gift tae gie us, to see ourselves as others see us.. think about it and be polite.

Answer 7

Women are so duplistic when it comes to this. They claim it's for their hubby, or they like the fashion, or they wear it for appeal, but they show off clevage and more than half their knockers to everyone within range and they complain. It's like driving a Ferari into the ghetto and wondering why everyone is looking at you like a wild pack of bloodthristy wolves. They wonder why women get raped so much for looking like a c0cktease.

Answer 8

it may probably be somewhat awkward in spite of if it is not undesirable, purely lips touching for some moments. yet there could be like 0 attraction and that i does not bypass and do it out commonly for loose for no reason. artwork is artwork, and that i'm delicate with my sexuality adequate to kiss yet another person of the different intercourse. it may ought to be like the main important turn off i could ever adventure tho. SO wait although, is it in simple terms me or is that not a deep kiss? It feels like a sophisticated %....

Answer 9

I don't know. I'm pretty skinny (BMI of 17.5) so I don't show off much skin because there's no point. I have an ***, but not much boobage. I work on the face instead, and I wear makeup. Guys still check me out, but i think it's more respectable if they check you out for your face because it's not necessarily sexualized.

I think girls just say they dislike it, but they are secretly flattered.

Answer 10

I only show off skin when I want guys to see what I got. Im not uncomfortable when they come to check me out.

Answer 11

Make the body check out un-noticed, and go for eye contact afterwards... works like a charm