Ok heres the deal.....
I am gonna go to my best friends house on Friday.....
My boyfriends UNCLE lives like 2 seconds away from him...
well my boyfriend wants me to go outside with him....and do somethings......
I REALLY REALLY WANT TO!!
But, i dont want him to leave me AFTER he gets what he wants....(which happened to the girl....the one i am going to)
I love him and he wants to like finger me...and stuff like that....
AND I WANT TO SOOOO BAD!!
But i havent even frenched yet....
sooo what do i do??
2006-10-07 13:13:47 · 11 answers · asked by i lOVE M0NKEYMAN!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WE ALSO HAVE BEEN GOING OUT FOR 5 MONTHS!!
and I WANT to!!
IDK....I AM CONFUSED...
:(
2006-10-07 13:19:42 · update #1
Do NOT let him stick his rusty fingers in your vagina!! He is only going to use you like he did to your friend. If he truely liked you he would not ask you something as disrespectful as that. I repeat, do NOT let him do that. You will eventually regret it. He is not going to love you back, ever! Because he is going to look at you as a disgusting girl once you let him do that. No guy likes a bad girl. He will start thing if she let me finger her then she would let any guy finger her. Also, fingering can lead to sex! He will also tell everyone about what he did to you. If you love youself and have self-respect do not let him disrespect you like that no matter how bad you want him to. Why don't you finger yourself (masturbate?) Better than him doing it and telling the whole world. You wil be near your uncle's house, what if he sees you outside getting fingered ? He will be pissed off that his niece is getting used by some creep! so DON'T! wait until you are muchhhh older and ready. No need to rush kissing either. it wont be nice if you are with some creep, wait until you are ready and with the RIGHT guy.
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2006-10-07 13:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by hh h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok girl friend, here is what you do.. Call B. O. B ( Battery Opperated Boy-friend) and tell the other one ( your so called boy friend) to go Fudge himself for asking you and wanting you to let him play with your beaitiful body. Don't go there not until you are ready to make a fool of your self for not having any self respect by allowing someone to use you and your body !!
2006-10-07 13:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by Teetee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you're too young. If you haven't even french kissed yet. Stop, please.
But I'm not clear...why does he want you to go outside? And what does his uncle have to do wtih anything?
2006-10-07 13:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the boyfriend no and show yourself some respect by breaking up with him giving yourself time to be a kid.
2006-10-07 13:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by rwwebber4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie u may think u want to because he's putting pressure on u "IF U LOVE ME " pressure u don't sound that old and this could b the biggest mistake u r making in ur life right now. if he loves u he will wait and will not pressure u. good luck
2006-10-07 13:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by Nora G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you're very young you need to know that with very young guys it's all about the conquest. It isn't about YOU at all, it's about what he can tell his pals about later. Is that what you really want? Aren't you worth more than that?
2006-10-07 13:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you haven't frenched him don't let him finger you. You're moving too fast, if he's not willing to respect that then he's not worth your time.
2006-10-07 13:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by c_mitu89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT!
That is my advice to you .. just DONT! I can totally see that you are not ready for this and you dont need to give this boy something just because you really like him. You are not ready for this and if he cant accept that then that is his problem and you need to find somebody else cus you would be way to good for him then.
2006-10-07 13:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by jessi7teen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have more respect for yourself & Don't throw yourself at him
2006-10-07 13:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by Catcanscratch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋