My dad is handicapped but can walk. Not that great though. I know I'll be nervous but will also be focused and worried about him. I don't want to hurt his feeling AND I am torn because I do want him to walk me down the isle.
2006-10-07 13:08:13 · 16 answers · asked by cmps 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I also agree with the wheel chair, but you have to ask your dad if he'd be ok w/ using it, I don't know him but some dad's are too proud and might think others are pitying him and thinking he's weak. So you have to include him and his feelings too. If he's too proud for a wheel chair, maybe he can use a stylish walking cane (maybe they rent them at the tux place??) or as others said he can lean on you? Anyway, congrats on your wedding and I hope all runs smoothly and it's everything you imagined!
2006-10-07 13:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by Julia F 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You just want your Dad to be able to give you away right? So, why don't you can walk down the isle and meet up with your Dad in the middle, all the way at the front, where ever you two feel it's the safest for him. And then have him give you away.
2006-10-07 20:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by fiestyredhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him wait in the front row and greet you when you come down. From there it should only be a few steps to the alter and he still gets to give you away which is the whole point of walking you down the isle in the first place.
2006-10-07 20:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he uses a cane, have him use it then.
If he uses a wheelchair, have him use it then.
Have your mother walk on the other side as counter-balance.
Have him stand at the front while a brother walks you down the aisle to present to him.
You walk down the aisle and meet him at the first pew.
Ask the pastor, we get all sorts of situations.
2006-10-07 21:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Motorized wheelchair is the best solution for you.^_^ Not only does your dad feel comfortable but he is able to sorta walk you down the isle.
2006-10-07 20:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by strawberry_kiss_gurlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you use a wheelchair? It's no big thing. Your friends know the situation and will applaud (hopefully, silently) your effort to include your father in your wedding.
To not include him would be very disrespectful and a most unloving act on your part.
Find out what your dad wants do do...and just do it. Good luck and happiness to you.
2006-10-07 20:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by Donald W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have someone else (a brother??) walk you down the aisle. Have your father waiting at the front of the church. After walking down the aisle with the other man (your brother??), your father could still take you the final few steps and "give you away" to your soon to be husband.
Good luck...it is so nice of you to think of your dad on YOUR special day!!!
2006-10-07 20:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. G 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Take things slow if you want to do the traditional "walk"...or you can rent a wheelchair and either push him down the aisle or hold his hand while someone else pushes the chair.
2006-10-07 20:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by Gayle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him and share your consciences. Maybe he can just meet you at the begging when and walk you a little more and then he can just say he is the one giving you away. That way you can have a little bit of both. Good luck and best wishes.
2006-10-07 21:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by brezzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to break you Daddy's heart, then dont let him do it. I think you should get a wheelchair, walker, scooter, anything that can assist him. He's your dad. He wants to do this I am sure, as much as you want him to. Hope you have a great life. Good Luck.
2006-10-07 20:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by marilynhenriksen@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋