my boyfriend wants me to sleep with him but i dont no if i really want to but i dont want us to get in a fight about all of this and brake up. what sould i do and say to him. HELP!
2006-10-07 12:55:43 · 11 answers · asked by Jamie d 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
just let him know you are not ready yet......he should respect that....if he doesnt then he is with you for the wrong reasons....
2006-10-07 12:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
READ THIS NO MATTER HOW LONG IT MAY APPEAR ITS VERY IMPORTANT THAT U READ!!!
LISTEN TO ME IF U LISTEN TO NONE OF THE OTHER POST
IF U ARE A VIRGIN
KEEP IT (HOLD ON TO IT) IT IS SO SPECIAL AND IF U DO IT NOW AND U ARE NOT READY YOU WILL REGRET IT BIGTIME AND NO OFFENSE A REAL MAN OR FRIEND WOULD NOT ARGUE WHEN DENIED THE NOOKY
DONT HAVE SEX!!!!!!!! IT CAN COST U YOUR LIFE
IT COULD PUT U AT RISK OF AN STD
IT CAN CAUSE U TO BECOME PREGNANT BUT MOST IMPORTANT HE AINT WORTH SOMETHING THATS SPECIAL GET SOME KIND OF COMMITMENT BEFORE U DO IT PLEASE I DONT KNOW U BUT IM BEGGING U BE SMARTER THAN THE TEMPTATION YOU ARE MORE THAN WORTH WAITING FOR SO IF HE CANT WAIT LET HIM GO !!!!
AND IF U THINK U ARE INLOVE WELL SOMETIMES U HAVE TO HURT TO GET STRONGER AND PAIN IS A WEAKENESS LEAVING THE BODY LET HIM GO AND 3 TIMES BETTER WILL COME
BECAUSE WHEN U SAY I AM NOT READY HE SHOULD SAY OK OR WELL I CAN WAIT SOMETHING TO SUPPORT HOW U FEEL BECAUSE HOW U FEEL MATTERS
SEX WILL NOT MAKE HIM WANT U MORE
LOVE U NO MORE THAN WHAT HE ALREADY DOES
IT WILL NOT MAKE HIM STAY
WANT TO MARRY U OR ANY OF THAT OTHER MESS
JUST BE U AND STAND STRONG
GOOD LUCK
ILL BE PRAYING FOR U
AND BLESSING COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT BELEIVE OR NOT
U CAN CONTACT ME AT ANYTIME AT SWEET_STUFF516@YAHOO.COM
2006-10-07 17:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by SWEET S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay for one don't let anyone pressure you into sleeping with them. If your not ready than just tell him and explain why. If he breaks up with you over that than obviously he wasnt into it for just you.. he wanted just sex. If he gets a little frusterated don't get mad.. you gotta understand hes probably sexually deprived!! haha. But the true side of him will come out once you sit down and talk to him. Just DONT do it so he wont leave you. There will be someone out there who wants the same thing.
2006-10-07 13:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by preppyhater69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in my late 30's and that i nonetheless hate tidying my room (properly, my domicile and backyard now). I in basic terms locate it so mundane, uninteresting, and so lose motiviation and do something else extra exciting. properly therein lies the trick! i've got found if I even have my ipod on and hear technological know-how debates or Frank Skinner prepare podcasts or the like and that i savour that plenty i can somewhat fortuitously spend an entire day doing the main uninteresting jobs which you could imagine. i in my opinion locate myself finding for chores that want finished so as that i can pay attention to extra on my ipod! So, the result's I even have anice tidy domicile and backyard and that i've got discovered plenty! So i p.c. to recommend that: get carry of what you like listening to: audio books/song/debates/discussions/different podcasts, and hear that on a similar time as you tidy your room. you would be so engrossed, you would be happy to tidy the entire domicile and weed the backyard -and you will even get 'wreck day for sturdy behaviour as you're mom would be so inspired.
2016-12-26 12:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand by your convictions. If he gets into a fight and breaks up over this, then perhaps he wasn't really meant for you in the first place.
2006-10-07 13:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he will break up with you because your not ready then he cant love you much!! you want it to be nice for you not horrable so you need to wait till you feel safe and loved and protected ,ps use protetion ,you can get pregnay from 1 time .
2006-10-07 13:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be afraid to tell him the truth about sleeping with him if your not ready than your not ready tell him and he should respect the way you feel. If he breaks up with you over this then you shouldn't really be with him anyway.
2006-10-07 13:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by Desiree A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell hI'm that im just not ready yet because of all the consequences that are involved....... and if brakes up with you for that then hes not worth it and he ovisilly doesn't love you he is just using you for sex, and that's all he wants, he is a guy after all. lol most men/ guys only want sex and not commitment.
2006-10-07 13:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by malinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you still into your boyfriend? there are times when my husband is up for it and i don't feel like having one, i go for it anyway because usually i get turn on during foreplay. he is not robert redford but he is super sexy:)
my point is you should probably analyze your relationship with your b/f or at least the fact that he is not that attractive to your anymore
2006-10-07 15:40:31 · answer #9 · answered by Leydela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This decision is not up to him... it is up to you. You have more consequences to face if you get pregnant. All he has to worry about is getting caught in his zipper. If this is what he is going to break up with you for, then what kind of relationship do you really have???
2006-10-07 13:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋