I like this guy a whole lot. We hung out for the first real time the other day for almost the whole day and we get along great - you could almost say we were flirting, but just barely. The problem is he has a girlfriend at another school. I am crazy about this guy, but I don't know what to do. I'm afraid I'm not good enough for him (if he breaks up with his girlfriend, that is) and I don't want to be the loser I have been around other guys I've liked. Advice, please?
2006-10-07 12:08:55 · 10 answers · asked by *~*Carnival*~*Ride*~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wasn't really flirting, not obviously. Maybe it was just me, but I thought he was giving off the vibe that he was interested in me. I don't know.
- P.S. - I would never want him to cheat on his girlfriend.
2006-10-07 12:26:10 · update #1
You should respect his relationship. If he would flirt with another girl while with her, what if he does that to you? If he actually breaks it off with her and you two start dating, just relax and be yourself. Don't pick fight, bicker or anything annoying like that. Just enjoy his company and give back what he gives to you.
Best Wishes, hope it all works out.
:o)
2006-10-07 12:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others. Show respect for his current relationship regardless of how he feels about her. What makes you think he is not flirting with other girls?
Is he really flirting with you? You have an interest in him. Could it be that you are looking into something that is not there? Trying to keep it real with you. Think about these questions and you will know what to do.
2006-10-07 19:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by About Midnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend and is flirting with you. So if you become his girlfriend, what will stop him from flirting with another girl? Is that really the type of guy you want? Really? See someone else.
2006-10-07 19:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by tko43078 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not date/flirt this guy since he has a girlfriend...If she comes to know that you and her may end up with a fight.
2006-10-07 19:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by BiXm@ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to find out if he has feelings for you if so then great. you just keep flirting but careful if the girlfriend finds out you might be in trouble.
2006-10-07 19:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so sure about your love, you should tell him and see his reaction. I his reaction is not good, for example if he do not care and go away, then I think you will have to find someome else.
2006-10-07 19:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by chunnu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend and then go for it
2006-10-07 19:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be his friend, it is nothing wrong with that, you know he has a girlfriend, so respect that, just have fun!
2006-10-07 19:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all,quit putting yourself down and know you are good enough.why try to get involved with someone that's already got someone?
2006-10-07 19:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by preast 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel
you've got nothing to lose, plus, won't you regret not trying?
2006-10-07 19:11:34 · answer #10 · answered by badcloud56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋