I am hanging out with this girl as a friend and I like her a lot and she told me that she likes me too but she is not sure of what she wants. She broke up with her fiance a few weeks ago and she tells me that they're just friends but she calls him almost everyday and she stills hangs out with him. She was living together with him and he asked her to pick up her stuff but she hasn't done so. Should I give her time to figure out what she wants or should I stop seeing her?
2006-10-07 12:01:02 · 10 answers · asked by j4451 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before stop seeing her simply ask what "she really wants"..good luck
2006-10-07 12:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by ~Alan~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space. She obviously still thinks she has a chance with the fiance or she would have gotten her stuff. And she calls him everyday. She isn't over him yet.
2006-10-07 12:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Justifying it by using exclaiming 'he became inebriated' is in no way a terrific initiate. You wouldnt permit a murderer off by way of fact he'd had some, its a similar significant, his strikes have been nevertheless unjust. you should evaluate those issues; are you able to place this at the back of you, and in no way deliver it up throughout arguments or disagreements, in no way carry it against him or use it as a means of punishment and could you in no way doubt or question in spite of if his version of in actual actuality the actual actuality. And could you frequently be questioning 'is he going to do it lower back, or will you be on his case each and every time he is going out for a drink? i think of you should hunt for couples counselling to discover a) why he extremely did what he did, b) are you able to extremely forgive and forget. Seeing as this behaviour is out of character, i think of which you a minimum of should artwork by using this and stay engaged on the expertise which you're the two truthful at couples counselling and you draw up some written barriers of what's and isnt appropriate. Theres no denying it is going to be difficult artwork, and you the two ought to artwork by using this, he can not purchase vegetation and take you out for dinner and fake thats adequate to make each and every thing ok, and the two you cant throw it lower back in his face everytime he or you is going out, saying issues like 'properly a minimum of i don't shack up with human beings as quickly as I've had a drink' interior the warmth of the 2d extremely won't help.
2016-11-26 23:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by tobias 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you think that you should be used like that ?from what l can tell you are a very sensitive and loving guy who could most definitely find someone else that is willing to love them she is playing with your emotions take it from a girls point of view those aren't mixed feeling she's using you she know exactly what she is doing and that is trying to console herself that she is over him,but still looking at you and seeing him, probably trying to make him jealous don't be fooled look at it this way if she can look at you then who else is looking just pat yourself on the back for being able to see the tell , tell signs because hon when somebody really loves you, believe me you will never question there love, there's lots of girls out there searching for a man like you believe me!
2006-10-07 12:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by onnie f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-07 12:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stop seeing her if you care to much and let her wait and figure out what she wants to do with her life...obviously if she still has stuff there and they still talk everyday....they are not over each other yet...i would not wait around to be hurt or get pushed over myself...but that is your decision...but if you can just remain freinds and nothing else then that is your choice too...
2006-10-07 12:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its only been a few weeks then she's still hung up on him. I wouldnt wait around for her to decide what she wants. Be there for her as a friend, but look around for someone who's sure of what they want...you!
2006-10-07 12:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jadeba12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like her a lot and she is still calling her ex....DUH>>>>>>>>>>>>>>. she still cares about him and she will dump you as soon as he calls her back. Move on she is not worth it. She is using you while she tries to get the other guy back,
2006-10-07 12:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop seeing her cause she obviousley still has feelings for him if she calls him every day. but thats just me.
2006-10-07 12:05:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time
2006-10-07 12:07:29 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine&rainbows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋