Flirting through aggression??????????????
My best friend is always hitting me playfully. She is a girl, I'm a guy, we are 15, and people keep saying she is flirting. Today, for example, she just hit me in the head with a school book (lol) for no reason. We have known each other for 2 years. First off, do you think this actually is her way of flirting? She doesn't do it to other people. And also, what should I do back? Should I also playfully mess around with her?
2006-10-07 11:57:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH YEAH!!!!! I was 21 and twisted my crush's nipples, farted on him, and now he's my husband. If you start flirting back (only if you like her like that, if you don't like her, then PLEASE do not lead her on), there's a good chance she'll stop because the ice has been finally broken. If you do not like her like that, then sit down with her after school or something and explain to her that it's really annoying how she does that, and that it makes you not want to hand out with her as much. That should be good. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-07 12:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by afafae25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people do flirt by messing around & hitting. Maybe u should ask her out on a date & then she can stop hitting u.. And as for doing things back yah u should playfully mess around if u like her in that way. But don't hit her, because its not ok to hit. But it might stop if u ask her out maybe thats what shes waiting for. Good luck
2006-10-07 19:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say. Some people (myself included) have a very playful nature about them and even more so when they are around someone they are comfortable with. I flirt and play around with my guy friends, but I'm not interested in a relationship with them and they know that. I have a feeling she is flirting, but you really won't know for sure unless you ask her out and she says Yes (or no)
2006-10-07 19:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YYYYEEEEEEEESSSSSS! She is definatly flirting! im a girl i should know. Sometimes a girl can flirt with a guy without even noticing. What u should do is flirt with her back,shel like it.then mabe over time ask her out.Slowly work ur way to the relationship. Keep it real and maybe shel open up and tell the truth.
2006-10-07 19:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by marielashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHATEVER YOU DO DONT PLAYFULLY MESS WITH HER BY HITTING HER! IT WILL BE THE MISTAKE OF YOUR LIFE! I HAVE NEVER TRIED IT THOUGH! ok. anyway, i would say she is flirting with you. mayber you could find some way to ask her out? maybe the hitting will stop. if you dont wanna ask her out and you dont want her hitting you, then just tell her to stop. if she gets mad, then she likes you. if she keeps doing it, then forget about her cuz she has got some serious problems!
2006-10-07 19:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by datehelpplz321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sure it's her way of flirting and definitely play around with he The message will be sentr
2006-10-07 19:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i think that she is def. flirting with you. i think that she may like you. i think what she is doing is giving you a sign that she likes you. a good thing to do (if you like her) then to playfully mess around with her show her that you have noticed her sign she may eventually tell you that she likes you who knows:)
2006-10-07 19:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by allie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants attention from you...It's a way of getting you to notice her...And be careful about playing around with her..it could lead to touchy-feely and then some..Trouble brews when that happens...
2006-10-07 19:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is so flirting with u. mayb she cant tell u so thats her way of hinting to u.
ask her out she is patiently waiting.
best of luck
2006-10-07 19:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u mess around with her back, maybe she'll get the idea u like her. and she .. probably? likes you too?
2006-10-07 19:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by indecisive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋