I am a nice bloke...
Never done anyone any harm, yet i always seem to attract women that use me and take me for granted.
I often fall for the wrong women....
Are ther any decent women left....
2006-10-07 11:29:46 · 26 answers · asked by BritishPKR 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cause your best friend at school was the lunch lady?
2006-10-07 11:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Ive witnessed this for myself....it is a genuine problem among nice guys..some have said that there is a point when you can be "too nice" to the point of reaching doormat territory and opportunists will quickly use this to their advantage and obtain power over you. Be wise, and slightly more tough...its not a flaw its a survival method.
Im a decent woman.
2006-10-07 11:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by deep, dark, dusky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are quite a few but its up to you to make em feel that way, if you fall for a girl its not about making that future possible its about making them appreciate the now, hang out with some of your old girlfriends and you will see how you just took away the lips from your person, get me?
you never know they might see the change in you after you mend your ways from this lesson in communication if u did?
they might wanna use you for more than your presence and money be more interactive and they might appreciate it...
2006-10-07 11:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jon M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your way TOO nice, too trusting. These women see that and are able to take advantage of you because of it. Develop some boundaries and don't allow people to treat you that way. Yes, there are still some decent women left.
2006-10-07 11:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably ugly as a Dingo. Im the one who your girlfriends run to, Rich, good looking, and i treat them like ****,, lol
Kidding,, hey,,, try using a baseball bat, knock them out and drag them back to your cave.
Or,, maybe try to be romantic, understanding, and to take crap,, meaning a women dont like men who they can walk over, and use. Its only fun for women for so long, Nice guys finish last, Be a man,,
2006-10-07 11:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a nice bloke, it doesn't work. Develop a bit of attitude, not with other men though, you don't want to lose your mates.
The mindset you want is not, "am I good enough for her?", but "is she good enough for me?" Don't overdo it, don't get obnoxious, just be a little less eager to please. Make them respect you!
Nearly all women will use you if you let them, so.....don't let them!
2006-10-07 12:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon cheer up! DOnt fall for a girl unless she falls for you. Be a little self-respective and dont think you are worth any other girl because you are precious to yourself and you cant let anybody take advantage of you.
2006-10-07 11:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by miss_magic047 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you let it happen. Try to find someone good but if you see she is using yu again.........Dump her A.SS dont take it. You might actually be the good guys that are left in this messed up society and if they don't want you then there missing out. But you'll find somebody. I'm sure of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Keep Trying!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-07 11:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by The REBELution! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always the nice ones that find that bad ones , you need to be a bit more firmer and stronger and stand up for yaself ,, if you know the girls a player then you be the player to , and never make it emotional enjoy it ,, and only make it emotional if your dead serious
2006-10-07 11:32:38 · answer #9 · answered by Izzy10 S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're being too nice to them. If you really want a woman to love you, you'll have to start treating them like dirt.
Here endeth the lesson.
2006-10-07 11:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop trying to find one & you may be surprised at who comes along when you are no longer looking.
2006-10-07 12:02:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋