the girl i love has a BF, she doesnt yet know that i love her
she thinks i might like her, so she doesnt talk to me much
i asked her out like 2 or so times, and she said she was too busy to have a BF
should i jus not talk to her at all anymore ? (like im doin now)
or should i ask her why she lied and hurt me numerous times ?
2006-10-07 11:19:34 · 7 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should have a serious talk...just the 2 of you...and don't go there hostile or upset or anything, that will only make things bad...and don't flat out ask her "why she lied" or anything like that, that is very accusatory and might cause her to just get defensive and not try to accomplis anything...good luck!!! =)
2006-10-07 11:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said she already has a boyfriend ,,,, that should be enough for you ,,,, You need to back off and away from her ,,,,,She has a boyfriend and she doesn't appear to want to even talk to you ,,,,She is committed to some one else ,,,, You just have to live with it and get over it ,,,,,You can sit around being selfish and self centered and feeling sorry for yourself and stagnate or you can wake up and smell the coffee ,,,,and get a life ,,,,, It's not her fault that she's hurt you ,,,,,,, It's not her fault that you have given her so many opportunity's to say no to you every time you've tried to talk to her ,,,,,I mean how big does the brush have to be before you recognize a brush off ? How many bricks have to hit your head before wake up ? ,,,, What part of NO don't you understand ?,,,, If you like this girl the way you claim to then give her a break ,,,,,, Back off ,,,,,, Quit being a pest and leave her alone ,,,,,, Those might be harsh words and not exactly what you are looking for ,,,,,,, but life can be hard sometimes and there's nothing for it ,,,,, Things are the way they are ,,,,,,, there's very little sympathy in the real world ,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,,,,,
2006-10-07 20:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably trying to put you down gently.
I would just let it go and find a girl who doesn't have a boyfriend who likes you. You can always be friends with this other girl, but it sounds like she is uncomfortable around you now.
2006-10-07 18:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course talk to her, and smile, and have small talk, just have her as a friend, and see where that will take you. Always be friend first. that is the relationships that make it!
2006-10-07 18:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking to her if you don;t then you'll have no chance with her because you wouln't even be friends.
2006-10-08 14:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by iambeautiful65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop back 5 and punt
2006-10-07 18:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just learn to move on and keep your chin up!
2006-10-07 19:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by Maritza F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋