i like someone who is 8 years older than me. i'm 14, do the math. i see him everyday and it feels great. he looks at me, but he doesn't really notice me. he never calls on me or anything so yeah that's because i don't participate. whenever we talk on the subject love, he'll look at me, and i'll look at him. what does this mean ? what are some signs of him liking me? whenever he's around, i wanna get his attention...how can i do that? but then i sort of "avoid" him when he's near, cause all the girls go up to him...what should i do ?
2006-10-07 11:17:05 · 13 answers · asked by aznfaypor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At 14 you're too young to date. MORE SO someone who is 8 years older than you. He is 22, why would he want to date a girl who can't even drive a car yet? And he may also be thinking about the fact that you might have a dad like me for instance who would NOT tolorate this. At 14 you're still a baby. NO DON'T get mad for me saying this. But at 14 you're not mature enough to handle the things that will happen between the two of you. Please do yourself a favor and move on and give it at the very least until your 18 minimum.
2006-10-07 11:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to steer clear of this man. If you were 18 the situation would be different. He could get in a lot of trouble if he got involved with you. sorry but it might be a safe bet that he is just looking at you in a different way
2006-10-07 18:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by rahlo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all its illigal! he can go to jail if u start to date him. can be consided to be child abuse. secondly he is old enough to get older girls and if he is 8 yrs older that means he is in college or even graduated. if u love him then wait if not then date some one ur own age.
as for looking at u he might be attracted to u but id smart and keeping away.
2006-10-07 18:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by in ur face 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh...he's 22...is he some teacher of yours or something? I seriously think you should stop liking this guy. Set a 3 year limit...more than that is crazy!
2006-10-07 18:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that he is to old for you i mean why would a 22 yr old be interested into a 14 yr old come on now and if yall do anything he can go to jail would you want that for him ???
2006-10-07 18:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by wesv6589 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a teacher of yours? That is strictly HANDS OFF! That can endanger his career, besides causing trouble for you. Besides, he is probably at least in a relationship, if not married.
2006-10-07 18:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, check out the pedophile pages for his photo, if it is not there then, NO, I don't think he wants to have underage relations and go to prison for you. I guess he doesn't mean that much to you or you would wait for it to be legal for him to have you in his life. You make me worry for your safety.
2006-10-07 18:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by scornedgypsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think there is nothing wrong w/ that my lady is 18 and im 26 i think u just got to go for it if hes into u hell let u know
2006-10-07 18:28:01 · answer #8 · answered by mschmitty920 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my advice wait till you are older ............me too i liked a guy and he was 7 years older than me but you know what it happened when i am 18 so it kinda different .........but you know what you can tell him that and if he likes you back ask him to wait for you.........communication is the key
2006-10-07 18:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya shouldnt be liken sum1 tht much older than u
2006-10-07 18:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by hey dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋