If a man openly admits that he would pretty much experiment sexually with anything having DNA - men, women, multiple men and women, including transvestites and transsexuals (not that there is anything wrong with TVs or TSs, just very different for a guy I thought was fairly straight/regular, and not something I would have considered for myself)... And has sought out the above in the past... And enjoys porn and online sex... And has been married more than once... I mean, is it common for men to fantasize about and actually seek out EVERYTHING under the sun when it comes to sex? I am trying to be open-minded, and I can be wild myself, but this sounds pretty extreme to me. It sounds like he's addicted. I'm just curious if this same person would actually want to settle down with one woman. He has tried to tell me he is interested in me, but he seems to be interested in everybody! This may sound naive to some, but I'm trying to understand what he is really looking for.
2006-10-07 11:08:29 · 21 answers · asked by penny4yourthoughts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy has no idea what he is looking for. BE WARNED! until he knows what he wants there is no way he could be loyal. Heck, he can't even be loyal to himself. Move on..he is not looking for a relationship.......maybe a trophy but not love.
2006-10-07 11:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men fantasize, even about things they would never admit to anyone else...I think it is good he likes you enough and trusts you enough to tell you what he is thinking and fantasizing about, BUT if he is really wanting to act out any of his fantasies and that kind of lifestyle is not for you, maybe you might just want to pursue only a friendship with him....you have to consider the health risks involved if he wants to be sexually free with that many people! Its one thing to be open minded but don't do anything with anyone that makes you feel uncomfortable!
2006-10-07 18:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by Shae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? I'm with you girl, I can be a "freak" myself BUT within limits, MEANING I will be a "freak" for my man, and MY MAN only I don't believe in sharing the wealth...This guy has a serious sexual addiction and needs some help FAST before he gets AIDS or anything else! wow kinda scares you to know people are walking around like that! Good Luck!
2006-10-07 18:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by conniechung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the way that you are talking about him, it sound like he is a sex CRAZY type of a guy. The best thing for you to do, is to move on. I don't think any ladies in their right mind would even think of going out with him.
2006-10-07 18:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I think its normal for guys to wanna do that. I mean, they think gotta keep the species going. As long as you didn't mind him screwing various other people while he's with you, he could have a loving relationship. I think if you tried to take his options away though, it'd be over.
2006-10-07 18:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by Liza128 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be brutally honest with you. To him, you are nothing more than one of an infinite number of sexual attractions. Save your time for someone who will see you- and only you- as something really special.
2006-10-07 18:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth is there is a reason y these women divorced him. ask them instead of us and they will tell u what really happpened.
i dont think this man wants to be commited with any one so if u r thinking of a long term with this man...... u r mistaken and will always be left out.
sorry dear,
2006-10-07 18:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, He'll never be able to have a loyal relationship and anyone with him better look out for STD's.
2006-10-07 18:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by stephenl1950 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be looking to go the opposite way from him.
2006-10-07 18:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you dont care for others lining up in your bedroom. you in front of the line or at the back?
2006-10-07 18:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by Mark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋