how sad does it make you if you fall for someone & then realize they'd only want you for ...
also, how can you enjoy it and not get emotionally attached
can you learn to be that way
2006-10-07 10:58:41 · 9 answers · asked by Fuzzy_lop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, while you're just having fun. Obviously you're not looking to be in a committed relationship, just a sexual one? If you just want to have fun without getting attached, then don't talk to or spend time with that person unless that will be the final result. No dating or hanging out. It would have to mutual, you don't want that person falling for you if that's all you want from them, so that should be brought up before getting down. That's fair, right? But seriously, it's so much better when it's with someone you care about. You can't protect yourself from being hurt because you can't control what others do to you. But the ups come with the downs; pain makes you stronger; pain IS love.
2006-10-07 11:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by ฿└ΛÇκ ĦΘŁỀ ŞЏП 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not think i can ....not and really enjoy and care about a person....and i just do not do things like that unless i am emotionally attached....but i agree you get hurt a lot in this life this way...but i am a natural caring person....i imagine there is many though that can do this and not bother them a bit...
2006-10-07 18:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For hunger we can do a lot. Emotionally we can't be attached just have fun. If it's nothing else to have, better something then nothing.
2006-10-07 18:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be disappointed if I wasn't wanted for sex. what woman in there right mind wants a single father of two girls who is also a caregiver to their daughters' grandmother. (all four of us in the same house) but then, as I'm almost always rejected, I'm always disappointed
2006-10-07 18:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by fullmoonwolf4real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to?
I thought i fell in "love" once, after my heart was broken I vowed never to become emotionally attached ever again.
Meaningless sex soon lost its appeal, it felt hollow and tasteless.
2006-10-07 18:03:40 · answer #5 · answered by Warrior Hamster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't learn to be that way unless you want to be truly heartless! You might want to find somebody else. :)
2006-10-07 18:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Angel of Music 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a guy right?
a fem wouldnt be so plain
2006-10-07 18:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump whoever it is.
2006-10-07 18:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can
2006-10-07 18:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋