my friend is pregnant and her boiyfriend want to get married she asked me for advice i don't know what to say? yes or no
2006-10-07 10:52:07 · 15 answers · asked by Sarai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is 17 and he is 21
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2006-10-07 10:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would never marry someone just because I was having their child. The ONLY time I'll EVER marry someone is if I'm 100% positive that they're the one for me.
If they get married just for the baby, they will probably end up divorced, and divorces are MESSY and EXPENSIVE.
Does she really want to wake up every morning to this man? An old boyfriend of mine wanted to marry me, and while I was very much in love with him, I felt like there was something more out there.
Either way, bravo to her for not getting an abortion.
2006-10-07 17:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she truly unamginably cant live without the guy and its the truest love ever then,, why not ,, but is shes too young and shes just getting married cuz shes pregnant,, ,,, sometimes having a baby can make the relationship worse is some cases strong it all depends on them ,,, but if she loves him,, but doesnt want to get married, all she has to say is i love you but i wanna wait till the right time . hope that helped
2006-10-07 17:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by Izzy10 S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are they ? If they are young , or haven't been together very long then I would say no ! It will only end badly . Tell her to give it some time to be sure that's what she really wants to do and tell her not to be influenced by other peoples opinions , because they don't live her life . It's her decision and hers alone .
Best wishes .
2006-10-07 17:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by here to help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she love him? That should be the only reason to get married, though sadly it doesn't seem to be these days. She has to make her own mind up, nobody can tell her what to do. If she makes the wrong decision it should be herself to blame and not anyone else.
2006-10-07 17:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is why people shouldn't have sex until they are in love and in a commited relationship-----since she is asking you for advice my guess is she doesn't love him. So I would say no. But now she needs to learn from her mistake and wait for sex until she finds someone she does love----or she will be in the same situation again.
2006-10-07 17:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend. Yes to a happy family for the kid. No if the boyfriend is a *** ****.
Just do what is best for the kid and for yourself. Good Luck.
2006-10-07 17:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she love him? Does he have a job? A place to stay?
Any "nos" in the above, bad idea to get married.
Does he live with his parents?
Is he unemployed?
Any "yesess" above, bad idea to get married.
2006-10-07 17:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be supportive, but give NO advice. Either way it has a good chance of backfiring on you
2006-10-07 17:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by Cat Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart, if you think he will take good care of her and the baby, then say yes.
If not then good luck and good bless your heart child.
2006-10-07 17:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋