I really like this boy he's 18 I'm scared of talking to him and plus he's my friend's boyfriend and recently they broke up.I really don't want to hurt my friend's feeling I mean friends mean more than boys right?But I really like that boy.Oh and I'm 14.What should I do?
2006-10-07 10:39:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ignore those feelings. You are only 14 and if an 18 yearold got with you, if only be for one reason..to use you..also, it would end your relationship with your friend. find someone your own age and that your not 2nd choice.
2006-10-07 10:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by t c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pass on him, as you said you are 14, you can't see it now but the world awaits you. Keep your true friends, they will prove to be very valuable to you. Boys they come and go, but when you really are in need of a friend, most people cannot count on the fingers of one hand, what friends would come to their rescue.
2006-10-07 17:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by Excel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she is your friend. Rule of thumb for all women is that you don't trespass on each others men. You are 14, you will have plenty of opportunities to meet and date guys. Also, if he is 18 and interested, then he probably only wants sex. Let it go. Your friendship does come first and you need to remember that.
2006-10-07 17:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay the f*ck away, first the friends don't date exs, next 18 and 14 is a big difference in this case. find someone a bit more your age.
2006-10-07 17:43:06 · answer #4 · answered by slyshewolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend about it first, see if she's ok with it. She should be if she's a good friend. Then just work at getting closer to him, be around more, chat, become really friendly. If you two have some chemistry he should ask you out. Good luck!
2006-10-07 17:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go into it slowly, by first becoming great friends, like hanging out at the movies or doing homework, things like that. Then, SLOWLY start into a relationship. And if this friend of yours is a true friend, she would let go of the fact that he dumped her and would let you go out with him. Hope that works out!! Good luck!
2006-10-07 17:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go out with him because if hes 18 and is willing to date a 14 year old he is a loser and should get his *** kicked by the world
2006-10-07 17:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, he's 18, if he does wanna go out with you, it's only for sex.
& that's you friends ex, you don't what sloppy left overs do you???
I would hope not.
& to all yall people sayin she should go for it, you wrong cause she's under aged, & that's just not right.
HE'S 18 & SHE'S 14 THAT'S GROWS & HE COULD GO TO JAIL FOR THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-07 17:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by No Kitty Cat for you!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend was 14, then maybe you'll be okay, but Maybe you should just let him be for a while, he just broke up with your friend you know.
2006-10-07 17:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find someone else he is four years older than you and you don't want to hurt your friends feelings
2006-10-07 17:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by musicfan799 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋