I was having a romantic night with a female and when we got down to it (sex), she was trying to get me to give it to her with no condom. I was like NO! We hooked up the next time...she tried to pull off the same thing. I was like NO! Now, she acts like she doesn't want to be around me anymore. She was trying to get pregnant so I'd have a life long contract with child support payments. I'm too smart for that! Plus, I can't trust females like that nowadays. I'm always wearing a condom. She's going to school and she's smart. Why would a woman want to sacrifice her education chances and get pregnant? Maybe she thinks instead of going to school it's easier to get a career off of getting child support checks or maybe she wants a baby real bad and wants me to be the one? Unnhh Unnnhh! I'm not that guy for her sorry? What do you think? We were just friends not even dating.
2006-10-07 10:27:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it feels better to her. But U cannot trust people whatsoever, so u did the best thing by not having sex without a condom. If she can take it off with u, she can take it off with someone else. Who knows how m any STDS she might have.
2006-10-07 10:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know.maybe she s bad enough to want to have a baby with you this way and maybe she just doesn't like the feel of condoms while having sex.. why can't u ask her why and explain your point of view... condoms are very important these days especially for protection... and since you are not lovers, then you should never be having sex without one..
2006-10-07 10:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bypass visit a well being health middle once accessible and get examined for all STD's. keep on with up 6 weeks later, and then for a confirmation at 3 months. do not sleep with strangers, and particularly without safe practices! study out of your blunders.
2016-12-04 09:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women really want to have a baby. Or they think that getting pregnant will make a relationship work. You were very smart to say no to her.
2006-10-07 10:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She is trying to entrap you. Not only has it happened to me ...my ex told me she was on the pill 2 times when she was not on the pill, and I now have two children..I love them with all my heart but she manipulated the situation. I went the next week and got a vasectomy, so she couldn't do it again...so she stopped having sex ......with me anyway...lol but I knew an 18 yr old guy that a girl did the same thing to him and she is making his life miserable because he won't marry/date her...even her parents are in on it. DO NOT DO IT!!!!!TAKE IT FROM ME!
2006-10-07 10:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by flashpro 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing.
Keep away from her as she only wishes to use you in the manner you have spoken of.
God has great plans for you and they don't include fornication. So stay the course and someday He will lead you to that woman He deems as your "good thing".
In His Loving Care
2006-10-07 10:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like an unstable/scary woman to me.........you're better off without her. At least you were smart enough not to fall into THAT trap!!!
2006-10-07 10:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by Sideshow Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you trying to have premarital sex when your name is God's strength? If you truly loved God you would be obeying His laws. Go take a cold shower.
2006-10-07 10:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lizzie Ann 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pregnancy seems like only one side effect. STD's would be another. Stear clear of her.
2006-10-07 10:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by chante 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we can hok up and we can do it all the time with a condom email me at katematkovich@yahoo.com love kate and you can call me 2 but 1st u need 2 email me ok love
2006-10-07 10:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋