I'm 22 years old now..I only know my college and school friends, i fell in love once with a guy but it ended ...will i end up getting married thru arranged marriages or what??
2006-10-07 10:12:07 · 22 answers · asked by what goes around comes around 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
There's a niche in this world for everyone. You are only 22 years old and you are obviously in transition from college to the "real world". Find your interests and follow them. You will find a like minded person. Just because you are quiet and shy doesn't make you unsociable. It means that you march to the beat of a different drummer and that's a great way to be. It means you are an individual and not just part of the herd. As the French would say: "Vive la differance"- or 'Long live people who dare to be different".
2006-10-07 10:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart your 22. You still have time to find Mister Right. Don't settle for Mister Right Now! Since you are in college try joining study groups or social clubs on campus. Also try doing some community service you'll meet new people that way. But if you would much rather hang around in the house instead of going out there is always on line dating. But eventually, who ever you meet online is going to want to meet in person.
Be safe and make sure you don't meet people when you're alone.
2006-10-07 10:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by WillLynn 1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still quite young. I am a 31 year old guy and still am not married. And I am not so sure I feel bad about it. But one thing you can do is to approach the guy first. Men should not always have to approach the woman first. Times have changed. Some guys even like getting approached by women. Don't worry about that myth. The easy myth. The one that says that if you approach the guy fisrt then you come off as easy or sleazy. It isn't true. It's crap. Alot of guys would like to hear a funny pickup line from women. Sense of humor is very important.
2006-10-07 10:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by bootstrap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They always say you meet the person of your dream when you stop looking will that is a lie. What I would like you to try is maybe go to a place that you feel safe with a girl friend no guys . and just start looking around the room. don't really look at one person .Just look at who's their . then you and your friend start talking about anything. this time have your friend just look around as you two are still talking and if you two can get a table where you don't have to turn your head that much too look is better. But anyway start going there once a week that way people will start to talk to you and you won't have to break the ice. But intell you have a guy talking to you and know you are not taken don't take a guy there. And this way also gives you girl time.
2006-10-07 10:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not the worst thing in the world not to marry. It's better than an unhappy marriage. You could ask your friends to fix you up on a blind date. You could try a service like eharmony.com or match.com or you could put some effort into joining a church that has an active singles program or volunteering at a charity such as Habitat for Humanity where you will meet new people while you are helping others. It beats staying home and feeling sorry for yourself.
2006-10-07 10:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be so obsessed about it. It it doesnt come it wont. Life has a lot of other things to make you happy. I know a woman in her 40 and she is virgin and she had never been in love. And she says she never regrets any choise in her life. She has a lot of friends, and a great job that alouds her to travel a lot and she is always happy. Some kind of excentric way of living and talking, maybe, but very fun to be around. Maybe LOVE is a bit overrated, maybe we are so depserate in finding another person because we think this other person will have the key to happiness while the key to happiness has been with us all the time. Find yourself and who you want to be, and then think about finding another person. Then maybe you wont even need another person. Are you that empty that you cant find other things to fill you up?? just dont keep your midn there all the time. Find something better to do.
2016-03-28 01:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Force yourself. Take simple steps. Find a good dating service and be very selective. Make sure you know what is important to you, and choose on the criteria that matter. Set a reasonable goal -- for example: "I will not go more than a month without making a date." Stay in control of yourself.
2006-10-07 10:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by novangelis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't found the right guy to click with yet. When the guy that is the type for you happens to be around, I think you'll find yourself being sociable just because you both have something in common to talk about.
2006-10-07 10:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the right one! I was 34 when I got married. Don't just get married for the sake of being married. That's a major reason why the divorce rate is so high!
2006-10-07 14:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join clubs for things you do enjoy doing. There are book reading clubs, or chess clubs, or ballroom dancing clubs. There are all kinds of things you can do to meet eligible men. Join your local library association. Or get involved with your alumni organization. Or start volunteering for different causes. You can come into contact with a lot of eligible men if you try.
2006-10-07 10:22:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋