i really really like this guy, and ive been out with him b4...i was head over heels w/ him, but then some stuff happened and we broke up....well now hes coming to all our school ftball games and callin me....well my friends are like you need to put a stop to that why do you like him so much? Is it their business? Should i take their advice? urgg im soo confused! help me plz
2006-10-07 09:30:03 · 12 answers · asked by *!* BrOoKe *!* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree depending on what the reason was of why you guys broke up in the first place, should determine if you guys should get back together. If it had anything to do with Verbal, Physical abuse or he cheated then I'd say you'd be better off listening to your friends for a change. Even tho its your life and really none of their business. But I agree that they are probably just looking out for your best interest which is what friends do. Or maybe they know something about him you dont. So if they have a legitiment reason why you shouldnt hook back up like if they know of another girl or something. If not then its all on you and how you feel about the situation.
Good Luck~
2006-10-07 11:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by collins2004_08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
before each and every thing i develop into going to assert certain, because my chum has finished that to me. notwithstanding, thinking she does this with each and every guy then no, for sure no longer! basically because she stated him first for like what, 5 seconds? doesnt propose a aspect. it will be diverse if she beloved a guy for a lengthy time period. Seeing a guy and liking a guy are 2 diverse issues.
2016-10-16 03:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by mcgoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say , u take your time sweetie. don't just jump into it. if you jump into love u're much likely to fall into it, but if you climb onto love, you're much likely to rise.
and talking about your friends concern. They are not being jealous or anything but they are just talking what they see. probably you are giving , a little bit more than u should.
cause when you play u play u dont see the game. the audiences are the one who will see the game.
but still i would say, talk to him, try to analyize dont' be blind. i know people change but not always they change for better.
- good luck sweetie
2006-10-07 09:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by coldfish85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no u should not u should listen to ur friends if u like him ask him out hey i had the same my friend made fun of me now i was not talking to her for a long time i am still mad at her i told her it was wrong i told her she not a friend well my point is if they laugh at u about it than they are not ur friends
2006-10-07 09:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you listen to your friends? What are they gonna do if you actually go out with this guy whom you obviously like? Are they gonna stop being your friends? And if they do, what kind of friends were they to begin with?! I think you need to be thinking about your own happiness....not theirs!!! Good Luck!!
2006-10-07 09:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by SittinPretty! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! if your friends don't respect your decision they don't sound like real friends to me. no, i dont think it is their business what u r going through personally, and if they get mad at u for making the rite decision, thats there problem
2006-10-07 09:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by ☆♥~chickgirl~♥☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends need to understand your feelings for him, otherwise they are not your friends. This is only different if he really IS a bad guy. Someone who may hurt you. If your friends have lame reasons just ignore them!
2006-10-07 09:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you feel? If you wish to be with him then go out with him. I think its ok for your friends to give advice to you. They are just looking out for you, thats a good friend.
2006-10-07 09:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by vicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your friends! they may see something that you can't because you are "love blind". They are usually looking out for your best interest.
2006-10-07 09:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus follow ur heart,it's none of any1's business.
2006-10-07 09:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋