Technically i'm in 2 serious relationships! Man1 is my fiance of 4yrs whom i'm in love with; but we have had trust issues. 2yrs ago we broke up for 2 months then we got back together he failed to tell me that he had conceived a child during the break up! I got pass that issue emotionally;but not mentally. I want to move forward , but i always bring the situation up in some way shape or form. I'm in love with him the sex is great, we are good friends. He got encarcerated 4months ago. A month before the encarceration we weren't on the best of terms; but now he's still there and we are back cool; but i've started back talking to my ex of 1yr,real close friends, sex is horrible, extremely nice guy,TRUST him to the fullest, eventhough he's sneaky; but i just love him as a friend and not in love with him nor sexually attracted to him. Him i have no problem with cheating but man 1 i do not know, he may have potentials in cheating. Man2 wants to marry me as well! Who should i choose?
2006-10-07 08:34:07 · 15 answers · asked by "The Dark Angel" 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like neither of them are suited toyou.
You need to find someone you totally trust and are sexually attracted to. Obviously neither of these guys is right for you or else you wouldn't even be asking the question.
Don't be afraid of being alone, you don't have to choose either, it would be better to be on your own, then you will be available when your true love comes along.
2006-10-07 08:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by meday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not sure of yourself. Put on your thinking cap. Find out the good and the bad points of both the guys. Clarify the Bad points upfront with each of them individual and If you want both of the purely for body sex tell them so.If not keep away from the guys with whom you dont like sex and feel horrible while having sex with this one.
2006-10-07 08:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Haresh Punjabi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 01:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose man 2 because if you can't trust someone well there is no point in being with them and as for the sex with man 2 ..talk about potential improvements..........it might help .........he may not be sure yet.........but definetly leave man 1 out of the equation
2006-10-07 08:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does man #1 have a good job? thats important...If he does stick with him cuz theres deep love and good sex...Never marry a horrible sex guy Ugh...good luck
2006-10-07 08:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither...Move on. Man 1 can't be trusted and man and man 2 can't satisfy you so eventually you would cheat on him...
2006-10-07 08:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just decided if you would rather be in a relationship just for the sex, b/c sex only goes so far.
2006-10-07 08:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by Dinosaur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl!!!!!!!!!!! dont you have a third choice... be byyourself for a while!!!! sex is very important in a relationship but is not everything... is there a curtain number 3???
2006-10-07 08:39:44 · answer #8 · answered by ARELY G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOO the one in jail sounds like a winner, pick him!!
2006-10-07 08:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by bukkake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither by the sound of it.
2006-10-07 08:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by diane c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋