i used 2 go out with this guy. he was so perfect but my family and friends hated him as he was older and a different religion so they split us up. recently we have started talking and i think that im falling back in love with him!! What shall i do? if anyone found out i would be dead!! i dont even have a phone as mine broke so it is even harder to contact him. i dont know what to do!!Plz help me!! I havent found anyone as good as him and dont think i will. we broke up in may.
2006-10-07 08:31:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
frst of all. get a new cell and second, this sounds like romeo and juliet. Ask yourself this: Do I want to be with him? Do I still love him? Put your family out of your mind and figure out if you are falling in love again or if you think you are, just because you want to rebel against your family to anger them, for breaking you two up, without realizing it. Religion and age are important but they can't compete with matters of the heart.
2006-10-07 08:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by SG_love94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, are u willing to accept the consequences of ur family and friends turning their back on you just so u could get it on with this guy?? Coz dear, u gotta expect the worst.. WHen it includes religion its pretty serious...
Other than that, well u know what i think why u want to be with him is because u couldnt before.. U had to stop ur relationship and that my dear is a huge huge turn on.. Makes u even want that person more.. DOnt get urself too worked up in his world coz im scared what ur family n friends say might come to reality...
So, if u still want to go on .. u get it on secretly.. dont tell ur friends, ur family.. get to know the guy all to urself without influence from ur family... coz if u let them know now, they'd probably do wat they did before..and yet again ud be apart..
I regret to say that when our family n frens say they dont like the person,they only say it coz they love us and see something we cant see.. so u have to really see the inside of this guy..
Believe in this..what goes around comes around..
No matter wat, our family is our flesh n blood..and they know better...
Goodluck
2006-10-07 08:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by kim_stolz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all no one is perfect, you are setting yourself up for a hard fall thinking someone is perfect. How old are you? and how old is the guy? I can give a more supportive answer having this information
2006-10-07 08:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by bingomom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at the bright side things happen for a reason and dont doubt yourself you will find someone better ..... but if you realy like him you will find a way talk to your family and friends tell them how you feel i know it is hard but =that is the onley way to get through to them ... When talking to them use eye contact good luck i hope this turnes outh for you....
2006-10-07 08:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 23:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who you date isnt anyones choice but yours. You should respect your family, however ultimately it is your life. I think you should sit down with your family and talk to them about why you like this boy so much. Ask them to respect your decision.
2006-10-07 08:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by ApRiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋