I'm involved with a girl married and 17 years older than i am. Its getting kinda boring though, and I've got way too much homework to meet so often. But she's been so nice, and i don't want to just say bye. Should i stick it out for a while longer?
2006-10-07 07:55:40 · 23 answers · asked by stephiluvvv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her the truth. A little time away can bring some spice back into any relationship!
2006-10-07 07:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by Silly ol Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, regardless of HOW you say or tell people things, it's going to be painful and hurt, so the best thing to tell her is, yes, good-bye. But only in the nicest way possible. Explain how you've got so much to do and that you simply are NOT able to continue the relationship. You don't have to tell her that it's getting or has already become, boring. Why deliberately hurt someone? Explain things about being busy as I stated, and whatever else might be bothering you, and she is, after all, 17 years older than you as well as the fact that she's MARRIED. And sorry to be as straightforward as I am about this, but that's just the way I am and will always be....Married is Married, adultry is adultry. Period. With a man, or a woman. Because she made that vow to be ONLY with him for the rest of her life and she's breaking it with you. So you can also tell her that you're very uncomfortable with that situation and always have been but didn't know what to tell her or how to say it, but it's become so stressful for you with all of your homework that not only has your time become too precious and that's one reason you've got to stop seeing her, but that you've just grown so uncomfortable with the fact that she is, after all, committing adultry. And if you were married there's no way you'd be having any type of affair, period. Lesbian or Hetero, whatever. You're uncomfortable with it, always have been but haven't mentioned it prior to this but it's just so bad and you're so stressed that you just had to tell her.
And THANK HER!!! Then say good-bye. What's the point of ANY relationship if all you're doing is "STICKING IT OUT"??
Good luck to you!!!
2006-10-07 08:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by raquelha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, 1) lesbianism isnt right, maybe you should try something different.
And to answer your questing, 2) if shes married then she cheating, and thats bad, you never really should have started it in the fist palce with a married woman, thats another thing that isnt right 3) if its boring maybe your not really interested in her, so it would be the best for both of you if you two stop seeing eachother. 4) it would be easiest for you to just say bye, and explain to her your feelings about being with her. Have a nice day.
2006-10-07 08:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhhhh. cheating with a married chick. is anyone taking pictures? 'cause I'd like to order a set. two things, she's married and she's your mom's age. the fact this is interferring with your HOMEWORK is kind of disturbing. bag the relationship. find some pimply faced, adenoidal, sexually ambiguous teenager your own age to mess around with, maybe you can study for finals with the new person dumbass.
2006-10-07 08:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No , she is married for one and 2 you are bored already! lol whats the point 2 major negatives! she is nice, then have her as a friend not a lover:)
2006-10-07 07:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Babylinda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 years is a big difference regardless of sexual orientation. Maybe look for a girl closer to your age
2006-10-07 07:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her then stick it out for awhile. Age has nothing to do with it if you like this person. Follow your heart and good luck
2006-10-07 07:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Billy T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, Good luck and Best Wishes
2006-10-07 07:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she is married.Whatever happened to your best friend who you wanted to persue a lesbian relationship with.
2006-10-07 12:51:04 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why to just say "buy"? Try to keep your relationship, just on some distance, it will make happy both of you.
2006-10-07 08:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by Georgio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋