I was talking to my bf online, and he started talking about how he almost made out with this girl, THEN he starting talking about how he wanted to take her out to the movies sometime "just as friends", he said "don't worry meg" and i sure am worrying!! Am i just overreacting or am i in the right? please help!!
2006-10-07 07:41:43 · 10 answers · asked by meg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he's trying to let you know that he's interested in more than just you.
I would give him a chance and talk to him about it, and tell him it would make you uncomfortable if he went to the movies alone with this girl. If he can't understand that, then I would find a guy who is only interested in you!
2006-10-07 07:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god..how can you still thinking whether is it wrong for your bf to talk about kissing or making up with another gal WHILE talking to you?? how can he do that? obviously, he dont bother about your feeling at all! tell hin that you are not comfortable with him talking like that..
try reasoning with him with 'what if i tell you ( your bf ) my story of thinking on making up with this macho hunk next door..and how does it feel if you can go to the movies or a bar sometimes like friends..HOW WILL HE REACT??!! if he loves you..probaly he be crazy mad or he will totally ignore or break up you..if its happen to this..this means he's not the ONE for you and there are billions of mens out there waiting or waited to be discovered..
Dump the a&& h0L3 now and flirt with other..
Good luck..
2006-10-07 15:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by MissChievous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb. He obviously does not care about your feelings. He must like this girl, if he almost kissed her and now he wants to take her out. Only one thing can come of that.. He will cheat, He is making it obvious.
2006-10-07 14:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by Justlookin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
apparently he's confused as to who his gf is.
drop this guy faster than a bad habit! he's bad news.
if he said he almost made out with her, he already did.
if he says he wants to take her out, he probably already has.
see where i'm going with this?
it's been my experience that men must be kept in their place.
they're fickle creatures and must be kept in check.
in cases like this, i wouldn't spare the rod to spare the man.
better luck next time sweetie!!!
2006-10-07 14:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by mistressmorro 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all r u overeacting he is a sneaky lil sumthin and u need to watch him(which u shouldnt have to do cuz hes ur boyfriend and u should b able to trust him)but he was truthful wit u,ask him how he would feel if u did the same
2006-10-07 14:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a guy i ll tell u this, unless he is the most naive/ innocent/ nice guy, you did not over react because even if he wasnt thinking in that direction the girl might tempt him to do so
2006-10-07 14:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by Dante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you`re right.Tell him to stop doing that or dump him.If he said you that i`m sure his not serious about your relationship.
2006-10-07 14:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by coognjen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be worried if he wanted to just be friend he wouldnt have almost or wanted to kiss her
2006-10-07 14:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by Betty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think anyone should be able to talk about another guy/girl when talking to their partner...if it's about something innocent or meaningless.....but i think you have reason to be concerned,..maybe he should explain a little more about his feelings or intentions.......just my opinion.
2006-10-07 14:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick his *** to the kurb.hes obviously about to cheat if he hasnt already
2006-10-07 14:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋