Well... My boyfriend keeps acting mad at me because i havent had sex with him yet and i dont know what to do. Help me! We've been goin out for 2 years and now he is acting mad. so if you have any suggestions help me!
2006-10-07 07:28:09 · 16 answers · asked by Kaitlyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's mad, he doesn't understand you and care about what is important. tell him, either he can wait or go elsewher with someone who doesn't have the beauty of your morals
2006-10-07 07:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lees' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay strong and do what is best for you!! Do not allow anyone to pressure you into sex-you will only regret it, and you don't get any do-overs!
Talk to your boyfriend. If he can't understand that you aren't ready, then he really isn't the one for you. You need a man who will respect your high morals! The truth is, if he truly cares about you, he will wait. If he can't wait, then he should move on. Good luck!!! DON'T CAVE!!! You are doing the right thing!
2006-10-07 14:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't ready and he's pressuring you, he's NOT the right guy for you. If he really loved and cared about you, he wouldn't get mad. He'd be patient. Find someone else who is excepting of your decision not to have sex yet. Good luck to you.
2006-10-07 14:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you he will wait!!!! You should sit down and talk to him let him the reason why you are waiting & why this is so important to you. Sex does not mean love and love does not mean sex!!! Love is to support mentally & spiritually. If you do not think is right for you to get down that way with him just yet don't do it. Like I said: if he really loves you he will wait!!! Good luck!
2006-10-07 14:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by Shorty_p.r. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to have sex with anyone at all, ever if you do not want to. This guy is not for you, if he is totally disrespecting your feelings and being a loser, then it's time to break up with him. If you want to give him a chance, although I wouldn't, then tell him that you are close to breaking up with him because he's disrespecting you. People don't care about relationships if they try to control it.
2006-10-07 14:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that if he loves you, then he should respect your decision for waiting..Dont give in cause he might just want that and leave you after he gets it. Giving yourself to him is not an indication he's going to be yours for keeps but is a way for him to stay a little longer.
2006-10-07 14:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he relly loves u he will never do anything that u r not comfortable with or that u dont want to do. He cannot be pressuring u like that.
2006-10-07 14:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by ღimd14uღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you beileve in sex before marriage? If you don't then just tell him that you don't believe in it untill you get married. And if you do believe it tell him how you feel about it and that isn't was love is about anyways. good luck and hopefully i could help.
2006-10-07 14:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by volleyballis4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how old u r if your old enough have sex with him if not tell him we are both 2 young 4 that
2006-10-07 14:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to have sex with him and he keeps pressuring you, break up with him.
2006-10-07 14:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋