He cannot leave it coz he is addicted for more than 22 yrs. I know he will die soon. I m bi-polar depression. So I cannot study or do job or do business.(I have tried to run a business but it flopped) I don't know what to do. My mom is ok but she will almost die when my dad get expired. my brother is schizophenia.MY sister hates me for ever.Of course she is rich. I don't know what to do? OF course my dad has managed enough wealth by which we can live whole life without any financial problem. But we cannot open business as it will be a major risk. I don't even know the abc of property. I m 25 years old and also hearing handicapp man.PLz give ur reply.
2006-10-07 07:26:00 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I got Bi-polar depression in 1998 and started having treatment in 2000 . I know my treatment will go for whole life.I tried to sucide continously for 3 nights. I drank posions for 3 nights. but nothing happened to me. It means I have toleration for posion.
2006-10-07 07:40:12 · update #1
Ur dad is not dying right now but the fact is he will die soon. Stop thinking that ur mom will die right after, she will die too but not that soon...we will all die, as of now grab the opportunity that they are still alive..dont make it a reason that since youre handicapped and bipolar you cant do anything, like study and job. your bro is worst than u he is schitzo but im sure he can find job, how much more a bipolar person?... do what u can do now, move! dont make it an excuse that you are depressed coz u are medicating..and u are getting well, positive thinking is the best treatment in depression, if u always think that u r depressed and sich then u will never be cured and u will always remain depressed, if u think that u will be better soon and ur mind is powerfull than anything and u can control yourself, then u will be cured fast. delete all those irrational beliefs...better continue your studies and have a business soon...u r not dumb i know, u can make it, stop being paranoid too, and stop being lazy, dont say that the money and property your parents will left you is enough for your lifetime...its not coz money easily get away in out hands especially to those person who have vices...so u really need a sustainable income for you...as of now, think of yourselfand spend quality time to your parents....gudluck...
read this pls: (Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy by Albert Ellis)
http://www.rebt.org/
http://www.soc.hawaii.edu/leonj/459f2002/lucyeh/bookreview.htm
2006-10-07 15:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Monette a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your family troubles. It sounds like you're trying to find a way to invest your money without risk and also something that is low maintenance. You should invest in property. It doesn't take any skill and not much time. You should contact a real estate agent that you trust. They can walk you through the process. In the meantime, if you have plenty of money - then after you invest in some property maybe you should do some volunteer work - so that you feel your life has some purpose. Maybe you can volunteer with a group that helps handicapped children or hearing impaired children and they can learn from your experiences. If your sister hates you, then you cannot do anything about that. Just try and be there for your Mom and Brother, the best that you can. The nicest thing you can do for your family is just be there for them. Having a positive attitude and being supportive is half the battle. Good luck.
2006-10-07 07:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by ggirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be there with your dad and attend him, dear, once your dad leaves you will be wishing hard that you had done the most you can for him. There wont be any second chance. There will never be any man who was concerned for you without expecting anything in return. Parents give unconditional love. Show your dad utmost and unconditional love at this stage, you are 25. Understand your sister,its easy, we all are humans here, she is not maybe able to deal with things that are going on. Tell your mom to open up to you, ask her questions about things going on, if possible and listen to her so that she has a release mechanism at the time of a panicky incident (but dont feel lowdown yourself, her emotions will be natural). But be careful with your dad and mom dont ever say a word that shows misery, empathise with them BUT be postivie and point at every single minor thing that happens in a better way. If your brother is suffering from anger try to involve him in sports (maybe by challenging) or brisk walking for distractions as they are a very good venting system.
2006-10-07 07:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by eddie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WoW! Talk about Dysfunction Junction!
First you need to get medicated for your Bi-polar disorder. Then you can get a job or go to school. If you don't have to worry about money right now then you should go to school. You can take classes in business, and then you'll be set to open your own business and it won't be such a risk. As far as the rest of your family's problems...there is not a whole lot you can do. So don't stress on it too much. Just focus on what you can change, which is you.
2006-10-07 07:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by miss_nursie_nurse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 22:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going through a really tough time. All you can do right now is take the best care of YOURSELF possible, one step at a time. You can't be responsible for everyone else's lives or behaviour - you have enough on your plate already. I hope some of the links below will be helpful. Take care of YOU - all the very best to you.
About Pancreatitis
http://www.umm.edu/altmed/ConsConditions/Pancreatitiscc.html
On Alcoholism
http://www.niaaa.nih.gov/FAQs/General-English/
Help for families of, and those close to Alcoholics
http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/
http://ncadi.samhsa.gov/govpubs/ph317/
Depression help
http://www.depression.com/
http://www.depression-guide.com/
Depression and bi-polar support
http://www.dbsalliance.org/
Bi Polar Help Center
http://www.bipolarhelpcenter.com/index.jsp
2006-10-07 07:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by belmyst 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to stop worrying, Enjoy your Father while he is here. stop thinking what is going to happen, right now he is here. spend some time with him, learn about your family life. And your mom is still here, so do not say she is going to go after your father, you do not know. You need to be more positive. Are you in treatment? it may be a good idea, this way it may help you to cope better. I wish you all the best!
2006-10-07 07:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow......you are dealing with a lot. All I can tell you is to give it to God. Pray and do the best you can. Things will work out, they always do. Good luck!
2006-10-07 07:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life will get better the minute you stop feeling sorry for yourself and making excuses for failures.
2006-10-07 07:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by T Time 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop torturing your self life your life and do something with it . The best advise demonstrate to your sister that you can and you will be better than her
2006-10-07 07:28:25 · answer #10 · answered by Frances N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋