There is a guy at my school which I think likes me. I'm not 100% sure, but I'm 90% sure. Whenever he sees me, he gives a good look. Also, he threw a kid's handball across the school yard once, but he let me borrow his even though I don't know him. I've started liking him too, but the thing is that whenever I want to talk to him, it's hard for me to say what I want to say. I get really nervous. I've decided that I HAVE to talk to him on Tuesday. Any suggestions or ideas on what to tell him? Please help me. Another girl likes him too. That's why I want to get to him first. Please help. Thanks!
2006-10-07 07:23:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you answered your own question in a matter of speaking- Do you really like him? or are you willing to let him get away with the other girl? tell him the truth- your nervous- what is he going to do? laugh at you? so what!!! get over yourself and TRY- your only hurting yourself by not trying! " if I only-"-----how many of us grown ups say that!!! don't be another one!!!! take that chance- it really won't kill you- although I have known people who throw up when they get nervous- your not one of them are you? hahaha just kidding go for it!
2006-10-07 07:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by drox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he remembers the handball incident. Take it from there, by asking things about himself.....his classes, likes, dislikes. BE COMFORTABLE with yourself, and the words will fall out of your mouth. If he doesnt pick up the conversation, dont loose heart. He may be shy. Part on a good note. You've made the first move. He needs to make the next move. If he doesnt, let the other girl have him!
2006-10-07 14:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first never assume that a guy likes you, it might be attraction that lets him give you that look, second you should train yourself atleast not to show that u r nervous no one likes to be around a nervous person, so keep telling yourself that you are beautiful and hard to be rejected (but at the same time be realistic).dont forget to smile, nothings more attractive than a smile, oh and i heard and i tried it so i know its true, that sitting upstaright gives you more confidence, last but not least remember that everything works out for the best even if not what you want to happen happened, and dont forget that if he really likes you it doesnt matter if that girl exists or not
2006-10-07 14:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by unis_1990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the most important thing that u need to do first is try and relax. dont jump head first into all this. just try and slow down. when on tuesday u meet him go upto him and ask him confidently for a coffee or a movie. dont just go and get nervous. see ur not doin anything wrong or crzy so y be nervous or scared. just relax and go upto him. dont worry so much everything will be fine dear. and i'm sure abt it. so all the best and go for it.
all the best
2006-10-07 14:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by Buddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u say u are 90% sure.... it is really hard to read a guy and it would be even worst if you are wrong so i wouldnt sugguest that you throw yourself out there. but i do suggest u talk to him before this other chick gets him first. start with a casual conversation(a recent football game, homework, ,sumthing that happened over the weekend....SUMTHING) and while this conversation should be very comfortable and relaxed, throw in a few hints that your interested in him(compliments, tones of smiles and sweet looks)
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!
2006-10-07 14:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by lashawnette14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what things he likes (sports, mivies, etc...) and maybe the two of you would have that in common. Then you can go up to him and talk about the thing you "have in common" and suggest," hey, maybe we could check that out tonight" if he likes you back he will say,"sure" or something.
2006-10-07 14:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by lipglossaddiction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, take a deep breath and ask him if he likes you. I the man who's sup post to make the first move or ask you out. If you have computation then get it moving OK. Good Luck!
2006-10-07 14:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by Luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are scared of talking to him maybe you shoud write him a letter or a poem. Poems say a lot that words cant.
2006-10-07 14:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by GreatfulLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and talk to him about school and classes, and you could be like hey we should hang out or whatever
2006-10-07 14:26:52 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Meow♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you- Go for it. Good luck!
2006-10-07 14:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋