My bf is workng on becoming a rap artist. I am happy for him for achieving his dream. he is working on his music video right now. I'm so jealous when i see him dancing with a hot girl. i know its just acting. but i just cant help being jealous and i know that he loves me. How can i handle This?
2006-10-07 07:20:02 · 16 answers · asked by Nay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i totally understand where your coming from. It's very easy to get jealous i think when it comes to a situation like this. what you could do is think about it this way hes your man he loves you and that other girl over there who you think is hot probably wishes she was in your place but guess what she's not. so enjoy what u have because if he wanted her he wouldnt be with you. so calm down and if you cant help it maybe just dontd watch when he performs.
2006-10-07 07:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by shante 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you knew this was coming and it would look really selfish to tell him how you feel. What you could do is after the video is over run and kiss him so every other girl will know that he is your man!!
2006-10-07 14:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Frances N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to be crude or anyting that his head is going to get real big if things go the way planned and he will forget about you and move on.. So be ready for the worst.
2006-10-07 14:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by tckk1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel and jealousy is a normal feeling but if you know this is only his job then try and look at it like it is. He loves you and he spends his time with you so dont worry.
2006-10-07 14:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough one. i would be jealous too. just keep and eye on it and remember its only for the video
2006-10-07 14:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anne A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. maybe see if you could be in the video instead of some other hot girl.
2006-10-07 14:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by jammin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you KNOW this, apparantly you really havent convinced yourself. Your jealousy is merely your own feelings of inadequacy. Have strong feelings of WHO you are. Just because one is HOT doesnt make them loveable.
2006-10-07 14:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it makes u jealous dont watch,but b there cuz even though u trust him they can forget they have sum 1 sometime
2006-10-07 14:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either don't watch him or imagein that you are that hot girl and talk to him about it . maybe you can be in the music video.
2006-10-07 14:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, most likely he'll fall flat on his face, like many other rap artist that try to make.
So you have nothing to worry about! : )
2006-10-07 14:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋