ok so i really need help. i have a frend whos 14 nd hes havin depression. nd hes talkin boout runnin away.?

Question

ok so my frend hes 14 nd he havin dpression. nd talkin bout runnin away. i told him id do it with h im but the only reason i sed dat is beacayse i wanna b there for support nd let him no sum1s there.he really has no reason for his depression its pointless nd i don want to talk 2 an adult about cuz its our secret. i need things to say to him for support that makes him change his mind in 1 week. help me plz asap

Answer 1

Young man, it is not possible to run away from your problems. As your problems will follow you where ever you go.

What ever the "secret", it you both share, believe me no "secret", is worth keeping between the two of you if one has depression.

You say that you don't want to talk to your parents or an "adult", again relating back to this big secret.

Depression left untreated can lead to other serious personality disorders and then your friend may find himself with, "Serious Mental Illnes".

Sometimes the truth hurts, but time will heal that problem. Right now it is in your friends best interest that he speak to his parents about this "secret", that has him depressed and have them take him to see a clinical psychologist, or clinical psychiatrist.

Start with the clinical psychologist as they don't have the authority to write an Rx., for drugs. Drugs on not really needed if all you have is depression. As a good therapist can talk with you and get to the root cause of the problem. And give you alternative solutions to resolve the problem.

Clinical Psychiatrist are much to quick to hear the word, "depression", and pull out their, Rx., pad and write you a prescription for drugs. Something that is not good because it will only mask the root cause of your problem. Plus they will get rich off you, being that you will have to always return for another Rx., as the drugs are addictive.

My professional advise to you is to let the secret out of the bag and get some help. No secret can be that bad if it is going to cause you depression.

Clinical Psychiatrist, France

Excuse my english/.

Answer 2

if u really care about him u should try to convice him to talk to sumone, cuz if he is depress he needs professional help if he dosent want to, I think u should really talk to some adult that may help him cuz even if it seems like sumthing bad, ur trying to help him befor hi runs away or do something worst. think, what if he runs away or something worst, would be feel like a friend when u didnt told it to anybody?

Answer 3

wow... i'm no doctor but you should probably take him to some place where he will have a ton of fun lik and amusement park then show him how much fun living can be and then talk over lunch about how much he would miss his family and yours or something he is attached with where you live so he can relise what a mistake he is making

Answer 4

well i can help!!!! dont let him do that it will only make things worse and im not just saying that my really good friend ran away and it made his life even more hell dont let him talk to him and be there as much as you can but dont let him run away his parents or guardians will get pissed and punish him and it will be more chaos at home

Answer 5

ok i visit understand there being a topic if hes like 20...yet hes in elementary words 2 years older than you besides. He wont care in case your in elementary words 13, in simple terms say you didnt imagine hed like you in case you've been 13,so that you lied yet you relly like him and favor it to paintings without lies. good luck x

Answer 6

the answer is easy.!.....he thinks his life is so bad....then....let him run away......alone....and he will get a great wakeup call to waht life is really like........and soon will appreciate all that he has. if not..then running away was what was meant to be.