i dont know what to say when it comes to approaching women and starting conversations
2006-10-07 06:45:19 · 8 answers · asked by wayne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey it's not that hard!
All you have to do is being yourself, just who you are, don't pretend to be someone else....most girls (at least not shallow ones!) don't care about the looks, so you gotta show off your personality...just go to her and ask her to have a coffe with you...she wouldn't say no, if you don't give her the impression that you want her with you tonight in ***!
2006-10-07 06:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by Drowned in English! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. Just a friendly smile to start. Unlike years ago today's woman are different. Men today are afraid of rejection except for the drunk ones. When woman moved up the ladder some became sobs and some men became weak and stayed home and wore the dress. Well thats what i bloody well saw. There is no real men left out there. So just stick with the smile if you have an uneasy feeling that you might get centered out when it comes to approaching that woman you see. Take care.
2006-10-07 13:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, smile. Then say, if it's someone you see often, "you look nice today." Remember that everyone you see has CHOSEN what they're wearing, so you can always say "I like your tshirt, " or whatever. Take it slow, and if you are shy, then you probably should try to meet people in a setting where you have something in common: church? library? a class? club? group? If you're over 21, you could join an evening class on something you enjoy anyway, and then you'll have something solid to talk with the women in the class about.
2006-10-07 13:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the women like you talk to your guy friends. Just try to avoid saying anything MACHO (stuff you would say to guys just to stay cool). Just relax and don't care what happens. It's trial and error and you are going to need experience at approaching in order to get rid of any approach anxiety you have.
2006-10-08 20:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by deusdenton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow these steps....
1. Walk up being yourself if you fall on your way over and she looks at you just get up, smile, and continue to walk towards her.
2. Look at her face and ask her a question (*HINT* ask a question that's a conversation starter)
3. If she replies comment on her reply and ask another question.
4. In no time you will find that it's just as easy to talk to her as it is to talk to your friends.
5. After you have had a small conversation with her ask her if she wants to hang out later NOTE! DO NOT ASK HER IF SHE WANTS TO GO OUT ON A DATE THE WORD DATE CAN MAKE HER FELL RUSHED!
2006-10-07 14:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by Answer It! IQ...... who cares?!? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Yourself!
The Inspiration will Find you at the critical moment!
2006-10-07 13:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a cheesy pickup line never fails to work
2006-10-07 13:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by epooji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey how r u i was lookin at u and it had me thinking maybe i shud get at u!!! cuz DA*NNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN you fine lol!! so how bout dem 7digits.... lol..... that depends on if she has a sense of humor though
2006-10-07 13:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by mztraye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋