I love my bf w/ all my heart and we have a long distance relationship, I travel a lot to see him or vice versa but i usually pay most of the stuff, he never buys me anything,for my birthday he only gave me like a 10 dollars necklace, and he does have money cuz he's talking about buying the 80g ipod which is like 400 dollars. Im going in november to see him and currently im not working b/c im doin nonpaid internship and sometimes when i have time i work for promotions in events par time in the weeknd but he is working fulltime and he wants to pay half and half everything, for me is no problem, i can charge it in my credit card and pay it little by little but I feel like she should be more understanding and pay the airline ticket and then i can pay food and stuff over there. I've had boyfriends that pay almost everything, im not a gold digger cuz i usually offer to pay my half but still, Im the woman, I want to be paid sometimes and feel like a queen. He never does anything nice for me
2006-10-07 06:38:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hun he will only change if he wants 2. tell him the truth u cannot afford plane tickets and maybe he can come see you. if he cannot meet u at least half way maybe u have the wrong guy. remember that love is a 2 way street and even though love does not cost a dime living does.
good luck
2006-10-07 06:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG !! your bf is really cheap .. he takes money for his gf what a low life boy
honey u must learn to NOT trust anyone but UR self .this world is full of cheap boys who just wanna have a fun better life based on other's money
if i were you i would make things clear with him and i tell him about i feel and if he doesnt like it then u got a problem either he has issues with money or he doesnt love u enough
u must open ur eyes !!!!
think about the future when u get kids with him
are you gonna pay everything ?
he thinks u aint worth it !!
i would never take money from a girl
anyways
i hope u fix things with him
good luck
bye
2006-10-07 06:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can see where this marriage is going if you ever did, you guy's will always have money issues which in alot of cases it can tear up a relationship, sounds like it is all one sided to make this relationship work,and after all it is you travelling when you cant even afford it.what does that tell you.it takes two people to make it work,love is love but there is a limit,does he not think you deserve happiness as well,it sounds like it's all about him.
so ask yourself if you want to keep going on like that and live unhappy and miserable,if so don't complain about it,only you can change it.
best of luck
2006-10-07 06:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jeez this is tough. You wont be able to change him. Some guys are that stingy. And you cant talk to him bout it cos you would appear to be a gold digger and this is a pretty sensitive topic. If you guys have any mutual friends, maybe they can help. If not, either learn to accept it or get other guys.
2006-10-07 06:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by Jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boo, that sounds like my ex boyfreind except it wont long distance!! he was really cheap i didnt get anything for valentines day birthday nothing and he didnt really buy my anything but like a drink or summin and i bought him sumthing on valentines day wit the little bit of money i had left and it used to piss me off so bad........ let him know u dont have the funds this time and ask him for some help yall love each other...he shud undastand
2006-10-07 06:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by mztraye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's low priced and nasty to you i think of he ought to bathe you with rings and address holiday in spain that ought to fee only 4grand. he's not prevalent he ought to provide you some thing decrease back and share the wealth on account that i understand you will possibly do a similar sixteen grand is lots of money unload the guy and get somebody who treats you the two a similar
2016-10-18 23:41:10 · answer #6 · answered by cardish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Means he has taken you for granted. Just show him that you need him no more that he needs you. Everywhere around the world its the men who pay and the woman just waits.
I think you are too good hearted for him
2006-10-07 06:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to stop and think a minute.Stop being stupid about it and refuse to pay a few times to show him you mean business
2006-10-07 06:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time you find yourself a man that treats you good and likes to splurge...He's elcheapo and needs to see what your worth.
2006-10-07 06:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by reeltimesniffer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's what on your mind, then:
(a) You're a gold digger.
(b) You don't love your bf.
(c) All of the above.
2006-10-07 06:42:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋