Is that an obstacle?
2006-10-07 06:37:26 · 18 answers · asked by CUTIE PIE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes...
2006-10-07 19:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be an obstacle because men, when they get into a relationship with that woman its not just with the woman its also with her kids. But that doesnt stop some men from wanting a relationship with a mother, its just they are a little harder to find. Most likely only if they are strong , and can handle it because when you get into a relationship with a woman who has kids you will also have a relationship with the kids as well, Because you cant marry someone without also marrying their family. In other words, when he commits to you he commits also to your children. It takes the strongest type of guy to do that. But if you find the type of guy who would be willing to be a second dad to your kids and take on that role then you will have a good man.
There are men out there strong enough to do this you just gotta look until you find them. And once you get a man like that you should never let go.
2006-10-07 13:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by beautifullybroken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that all depends if the guy has any children of his own, in most cases, if the man has never had any, it will be very difficult for him to understand that you just can't pick up and go whenever he wants to do something with you. Only a single parent can truly understand what another single parent has to go through in order to have some time to themselves. Children come first in most case scenarios. Some guys just can't deal with it.
2006-10-07 13:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by nycrunner69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't an obstacle as far as I'm concerned.I have two kids and it never stopped me finding the love of my life.
2006-10-07 13:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because if you wanna go out on a date with the girl and she has to bring her kids with and they start to act up then the date is ruined b/c she's too busy dealing with her kids, so thats why i do date women who have kids.
2006-10-07 13:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by yukmouth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the majority, like 97%, of young single guys that are 20-30, do not like dating women that already have children.
2006-10-07 13:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, so long as they're nice kids... Having one of my own, it would not deter me from a woman. Except this one time she had a son just two years younger than I... that was weird.
2006-10-07 13:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by matt4x420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you can find time to make room for the new man in your life, I don't see anything wrong with having kids (as long as there is no baby-daddy drama).
2006-10-07 13:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by Young & Handsome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really most the girls i been with have had kids, aslong as they dont expect me to raise the child like a father i have no problem with it
2006-10-07 13:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Skillz_That_Killz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is good news and bad with women with kids.
The good news is they are not virgins.
The bad news is there is usually a lot of baggage, why were they dumped?? And why do i want to clean up another man mess.
2006-10-07 13:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the woman......my ex fiance was awesome with her son....one of the things I liked about her....her son is a great kid.. I still try to keep in touch with him.....course now I am Uncle......
2006-10-07 19:42:59 · answer #11 · answered by sltydgx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋