broken up with you, and then turned around and said they made a mistake and want you back REPEATEDLY? how did you heal from it? did it drive you insane?
2006-10-07 06:34:31 · 13 answers · asked by echolily 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, my first baby's daddy did me dirty! Anything you can imagine, he did, or at least attempted. Left me after I had two kids like it was nothing. Then about a few months later, I started just ignoring him completely. He would keep calling and begging me to come back Yeah, it drove me crazy! I wouldn't take him back, but I did try to remain friends with him. I guess it wasn't good enough; he killed himself a few months later. Nobody saw it coming. Now, I'm not saying you should feel bad and think he's gonna kill himself, because that's not fair to you. Like I said, nobody saw it coming with my baby's daddy, and there's no proof he killed himself because of me. I had to leave him because he was abusive. Bottom line: do what you think is best.
2006-10-07 06:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by dorky_goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that to my ex, he kept calling so I eventually talked myself into thinking that I made a mistake. We got back together for a couple months but the relationship was never the same. In the end I think it hurt him worse because he had to go through the pain not once, but twice. When it's over it's over...leave it at that.
2006-10-07 13:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by JC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once shame on you, twice shame on me.
If they have done this repeatedly, they do not know what they want and need a lot of maturing.
Instead of wasting any more time with this person, move on find other interests
2006-10-07 13:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by Harley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, my ex has done that to me a good many times. We have been together on and off for 11 yrs! I am an idiot for getting back with him each time huh?We were supposed to get married this year. I hate the fact that he has done this to me and I keep on letting him.
2006-10-07 13:39:50 · answer #4 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...no, that's never happened to it. if a guy broke up with you, he had a reason. if he wants you back, he figured out that the reason wasn't as good as going out with you was. if i was you, i would dump him, but it depends on what kind of a person you are. if you think that you were really meant for each other, but are going through a rough time, then stay with him. if he's not the perfect one, end the relatioship.
2006-10-07 13:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by sportzgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but then if someone did that to you, its because they got rejected by the person that they were after and they are trying to get back to you. Don't be a second choice for him. Tell him to f**k off
2006-10-07 13:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes and they broke up with you because they like somebody else and that somebody else turned them down are it wasnt what they thought it was and now they want you back thats sh!t dont take the person back they just have too live with that big mistake
2006-10-07 13:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it makes you insane. But you have to be practical. You gotta move. Most guys say these words when they are cheating on you.
2006-10-07 13:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by Giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a saying that is SO appropriate here...."Burn me once, shame on you! Burn me twice, shame on me!" Why on earth would you let someone do that to you more than once?? Kick 'em to the curb and move on! Yes, it does hurt...a lot....that's why I would never let it happen more than once.
2006-10-07 13:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by Rembrandt11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it kept happenin ova and ova again i wud haave said f u and then i wud have moved on bc its only goin to keep hurting u if u put yaself through tha same things
2006-10-07 13:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by mztraye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋