Alright if you can give me a very serious and good answer I will chose you as the best pic...ok I really like a guy who is 17 I am 16...allright so what I am asking is should I go for him? SHould I ask him out or should I wait for him to ask me? Then he is shy so what should I do about that? I know he likes me because he has told four of my friends so...ok now what should I do? And who should make the move cus if he is shy how do I know he wont be afraid to kiss me or anything...or do you think he might act differently when he is just with me and is there a problem with this whole deal? tell me please..
2006-10-07 06:20:19 · 17 answers · asked by Crystal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's no problem, honey. You like him, you know he likes you, and you know he's shy. Ask him out, he would probably be a lot braver when friends are not around. I don't think that he would be afraid of kissing you, I mean, if he's afraid , he wouldn't tell your friends he likes you. He just doesn't want to be rejected, so he let you decide. If you make a move, he'll be sure that you like him too, and there's no reason for him to be afraid of kiss. He knows that if you made a move, you will of course await his kiss. If during the date happens the moment when you are both willing to kiss,and he hesitates, Kiss him first. He just might be a little insecure, but when you become a couple, it will change. And I'm sure that you wiill... LOL, best of luck!
2006-10-07 06:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by Looda_Plavusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait a little longer for him to see if he does ask you out and while you are waiting keep flirting and doing what ever you do to let a guy know you are really interested tell some of his friends to cause guys gossip just as bad as girls do. After a couple of weeks if he has not asked you yet and you did what I already told you, ask him out. The whole kissing thing I would say wait go on a couple of dates and if he has not made a move step up and do it yourself. Hope my advice works for ya.
2006-10-07 06:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by montana_infantry_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are willing to wait and wait and wait, then by all means wait until the cows come home. If you are interested in finding out if he really likes you then ask him out. Apparently he feels awkward right now, not surprising with what is at stake. If you ask him out and he says yes, then great. If he likes you a lot, which it sounds like he does, then he feels he has a lot to lose and he is reluctant to act for fear of screwing it all up. As far as kissing you goes, it's like this. As his confidence increases you will notice his comfort level goes up. So all you have to do is find ways to make him feel more confident around you. He has to see that you are impressed (or in better words "accepted") by his qualities or skills. If he can knock a baseball out of the park...praise him for that. You know whatever, maybe he draws well or something. Find it, build his confidence. This should help, now be patient and understanding and help this poor man out of his shell. ;-)
2006-10-07 06:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by William E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...ask him out~!..But go for something that is not too much for him at first. Perhaps a movie with friends. Then just with him for a coffeee or something after...Then see where it takes you. Even walks or whatever your into..bikes..skateboards togthere. Guys usually love having attention on them..no matter how shy they are . So, asking him out first will def. make him smile!..His shyness will become less after he spends a bit of time with you.
Relax about the kissing etc...that will come too once you both feel more comfortable with each other....have fun!
2006-10-07 06:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to do something with you. Have lunch or hang out and get to know each other.
Don't push the kissing etc until you feel right about it. It's not a race to the finish line if you really want to have a relationship with him.
2006-10-07 06:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kaitelia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for him. Make the first move and if he seems uncomfortable (which he probably won't), then just apologize, say you didin't mean to make him uncomfortable, and take things a lot slower until you think it's really time to try again. Don't rush because something like this just can't be rushed and be expected to end well.
2006-10-07 06:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's shy, you may need to boost his confidence... flirt with him, and let him know you're interested. Push him into making the first move. I can tell you that if he doesn't get over his shyness and gain a little confidence, you'll get bored with him soon enough.
2006-10-07 06:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by Shooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that if he is that shy yes u should go for him but if you are afraid that he will be to shy to kiss you then just help him feel that its just you and him and that he doesn't have to be shy. Hope this helps!
2006-10-07 06:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by Light in the Dark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the firstmove, if he's to shy! Hurry up, or he might think you are not interested in him. He sent you his Statement of Purpose. Its now your turn to give him a call!
2006-10-07 06:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by shrek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the age of go for what you want...and if its him you want then ask him out. He may be shy but once you two are together alone he may act differently. Go for it honey...you only live once.
2006-10-07 06:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋