2006-10-07 06:08:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anna D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
and this new relationship began about two days after the end of a 5 year relationship. does this show desperation?
2006-10-09 18:18:01 · update #1
Are you nuts? You can't even break in a new pair of shoes correctly in 6 weeks ... how on earth can you expect to know a person well enough to commit yourself for the rest of your life?
Slow this train down.
2006-10-07 07:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by msho58147 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because there is still a lot you don't know about the person and their past. Give it some more time and then maybe you won't feel so panicky when you ask that person to marry you (or vice versa). If you are asking this question on here it seems like you are already having second thoughts which is a good indication it is time to slow down. Let the honeymoon-phase wear off and then see if you are still into each other.
2006-10-07 15:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Molly1015 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say go for it. My fiance and I got engaged after a month. But a wise thing to do would be to have a long engagement. Plus that'd be a wise decision and give you long enough to plan a wedding, engagement party, and all that fun stuff.
2006-10-07 14:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you have all of your life to get married and just wait until the relationship lasts atlest 1 year
2006-10-07 13:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by themancoat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.... just after a five year relationship...that's tough. it totally depends on you though. My fiance and I got engaged 3 months after we met.... we knew before that though. before I would have said you're crazy but because of what I've been through, I understand when people say "when you know, you just KNOW" so... as long as you just KNOW. but if you have to question yourself.... that's saying something. I didn't have to ask, I was confident.
2006-10-13 03:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'd be surprised what you can learn about a person in a year. you'd learn even more in two years. 3 to 9 weeks just isn't enough time to get to know a person enough to marry them, no matter how open they are or how much time you're spending together.
2006-10-07 13:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by woodpecker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I did it.You need time to know each other, and be sure what you want.I was unhappy married for 11 years after. I miss a lot out of life..
2006-10-07 13:14:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No!!! It would be a major mistake! There's no way you know a person well enough to make such a drastic, life altering decision. You should definetely slow down and REALLY get to know them. What's the rush?
2006-10-07 13:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by chocolate-drop 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are u crazy? No it's not and if you do u are not in love,
every relationship is diffrent, u don't know enough about
this guy/gal to be this serious with. Time will tell alot!
2006-10-07 13:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by Nanniekc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on how confident you are about you own feelings and how much you trust the person you barely know.
Risky but exciting.
Very good luck to you either way you go.
2006-10-07 13:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by letem haveit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋