i'm 14 and i've been rejected twice in the past month. i'm not a jerk, i'm not dumb, i have friends, and i'm not shy
yet i cant seem to find a girl that i can call my own. help please!
2006-10-07 05:44:25 · 9 answers · asked by YeahImAzn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you stop purposely trying to get a girl then the right one will come around. If you try too hard... it's not gonna work.
Try to learn to be happy with yourself. Why do people feel as if they need a significant other to be happy in their lives? You should feel complete with yourself, and another person in your life will just complement you, not 'complete' you... if you think you need another person to 'complete you' then you are still two "HALFS" not two whole people. Does that make sense?
Get involved in after school activities and you'll meet some nice girls out there.
Also, just a tip, please, keep up on the personal hygiene. I'm not saying that you stink but some guys don't think to take a shower but once a week or brush their teeth only once a week. It's nasty. Keep your fingernails clean, your clothes clean, and don't hide in big hats all the time.
If all you're looking for is a booty call, there are enough slutty girls out there who will put out. WEAR PROTECTION ALWAYS.
I do realize that you are 14 and have a lot of living to do... don't settle for the first person to come along either. Trust me.
I got married at 21 and thought that if I didn't marry that person no one else would ever want me. I used to think I HAD to have someone in my life. I was wrong. I'm in my early 30's now and have discovered a lot about myself. Don't settle for just anything, don't put up with crap, treat yourself nicely, respect yourself, and remember that you are wonderful.
2006-10-07 05:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be patient. r u cute? lol just kidding. Seriously, depends on the girls you ask out, they may just think your not their type. I'm positive there's a girl that likes you it's just you haven't noticed that she does yet.
Of course, I'm 14 I love being single & playing the feild a little, but it would be nice to have a b/f. So, I sorta know how ya feel.
GooD LucK
2006-10-07 12:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how attractive you are, and how you act. For example, if you show off too much then you are a jerk. It depends on the girl's thinking.
2006-10-07 12:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're trying to hard. The less interest you show in a chick, particualry in one's your age, the more they might want you. Notice that I said "might". Very important keyword there.
find a balance between showing them how you feel, but not groveling at their feet to get them to date you.
Trust me. I'm a chick. I know what I'm talking about.
2006-10-07 13:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.u know buddy girls grow up before boys and wats ur age its jst 14 u have ur whole life in front of u . make ur self as girls go behind you.so best of luck to you .and to get a girl first do the friendship with the girl.then make her feel that she needs you.
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2006-10-07 12:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by sanjay t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have been on lucky streak since school started and i've been asked out 5 times i was jus being myself and being hot as usual
2006-10-07 12:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by hiphopluva93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep trying i mean girls dont' mean that much man. i mean your young, and you have a long life to live. just wait cause everyone has someone out there for a them. so just wait man i know it's hard but just try and do it.
2006-10-07 12:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by polobaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for her. theres a special girl who is the "right one" for you so juss wait and youll find her.
2006-10-07 18:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by aznflipgurl808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wash your ***
2006-10-07 12:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by crow_rez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋