There's this guy that I've been head over heels for a while now. We're really close. The other night we were text messaging & he said something condems & I asked him why cuz we wouldn't need them if I went over to his place. He said I sounded like I was up for it & I told him no. He then said His rep apparently wasn't too good for me. SO, I said no, I didn't know wat he had done but I figured he had already had sex. & he flipped out on me. He got mad & said he had never had sex with anyone! Then I was like, AwW, cuz I think it's fine if a guy is a virgin, but I was wondering....if he was gona have it, why would he want me to be the first? Is he just after the first person that gives him a chance? Cuz, i figured he had had plenty of chances. Or does he really like me? We haven't exactly dated. We might as well be cuz we act like it, except sometimes. I'm confused. Can anyone help me out here???
2006-10-07 05:43:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you need to find a new boyfriend. if you give in to him the first time he will always expect it. save yourself for when you get married
2006-10-07 05:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, if he wants to have sex with you and he's a virgin, that most likely he really likes you and trusts you. Also, he probably doesn't like being a virgin, but has waited for the right person to go with, which is you. So, you 2 should go out, and he doesn't just want sex he wants you.
2006-10-07 12:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by steveo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is more interested in se*x than in you.
But since you have a real thing for that guy, what difference is it to you?
Either you ARE into that guy, or you are into just another game playing mode, in which case it is all totally meaningless anyway.
My daughter's first se*x was with a guy she had a crush on, and he was just after the se*x. At least she got him out of her system. That's a decision you can only make for yourself.
2006-10-07 12:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most men under the age of 20 have ONE think on their minds ALL the time: Sex. Sex is what they want and that's what they spend most of their energy trying to get. The sooner you understand this, the sooner you'll be able to figure out the kind of person you want to be with and what you're getting into.
2006-10-07 12:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't sound like your relationship has progressed NEARLY enough to even be THINKING about sex. Try actaully dating this guy to see if the both of yu even get along together. Leave the sex stuff to WAY in the future.
2006-10-07 12:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys are more inclined to have sex at the first chance, so maybe maybe he is and maybe hes not. But its not cause he doesn't like you, sometimes you have to take the good with the bad. the good being he likes you and the bad he wants to have sex with you.
2006-10-07 12:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like thats all he is thinking about is sex...sorry if you text and that conversation comes up out of no where thats probably what it is you seem smart enough to give him a chance but back away if it sounds like thats where he headed
2006-10-07 12:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, you buy some condoms and carry them in your purse.
make sure a guy puts one on before it gets near you.
it's your body, you keep it safe.
don't fret too much about this particular guy. I am sure he likes you enough to bounce back from a small misunderstanding.
and if he doesn't then he wasn't right for you anyway.
2006-10-07 12:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say he relly likes you, not only that he trust you. i was my mans first and now we are engaged. no matter what mens rep is they r really scared and want to do it with a woman they really trust. so if i was you i would be flattered that he has chossen you.it too my man a long time to trust me like that and we were only friends our first time then we became boyfriend and girlfriend
2006-10-07 12:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by adnama_n_werd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I will ,he sounds a little nuts to me and why are you talking sex?your relationship with this person doesn't sound to good, just be friends,you will be happier later.
2006-10-07 12:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋